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Deal With Your Child's In-Laws
Seema's father was storming with fury as he returned to the house after a visit to his beloved daughter's family. The insinuating remarks from his daughter's in-laws were ringing in his mind. He wondered about his own patience to endure those comments and vowed for the umpteenth time in the day that he would never set foot in that house again.
Things started to go amiss from the next week after Seema and Reghu's engagement. Seema's in-laws started to complain about the poor quality of wedding preparations in comparison with their own daughter's so called lavish wedding. At the same time they insisted in not taking any dowry and demanded that Seema might wear only moderate amount of jewellery.
Seema's wedding day turned out to be a real chaos for her parents. Reghu's parents started to shoot nasty comments from the very day of wedding as starting from the low quality of jasmine garlands to the inadequacy in the butler's wedding costume. Surprisingly they also mentioned that Seema's parents gave her only moderate amount of jewellery. The marriage turned out to commencing an enmity between two families rather than starting a new relationship.
Days passed by. The families started to wag their vicious tongues at each other through common relatives. The only solace during all these whirlpool was that Seema and Reghu found trust and love in each other. However
it became difficult for both of them to trust and love each other's families. The long ran hatred took a new deviation as Reghu's mother poured abuse on Seema's father and he returned home in a collapsed state.
The above mentioned situation is a common scene in India, where marriage means the union of two families. As the time progresses, each family may demand the couple to accept their own ways while pointing out the mistakes of their child's in-laws. The worst sufferers in this situation is none other than the child and his/her partner. In that case it is always better to have a healthy deal with your child's in-laws than turning your child's life into a hell.
The
lesson
from
wise
monkeys:
This
is
the
first
step
to
sign
a
healthy
deal
with
your
child's
in-laws.
At
the
initial
stage,
you
do
not
have
to
lend
your
ears
to
the
critical
comments
coming
through
the
alternating
tongues
of
your
relatives.
Be
careful
not
to
mention
anything
ill
about
your
child's
in-laws
to
common
relatives
as
it
may
deteriorate
your
own
status
and
will
stimulate
unwanted
disputes.
Never
interfere
in
the
disputes
between
your
child
and
his/her
in-laws
unless
or
until
he/she
seeks
your
assistance.
Forget
and
Forgive:
Do
you
feel
that
your
child's
in-laws
are
treating
him/her
well?If
yes,
why
you
have
to
worry
about
the
nasty
comments
aimed
at
you?
Since
your
child
first
opened
his/her
eyes,
your
entire
happiness
was
depended
on
their
smiles.
If
someone
who
cares
for
them
aims
an
evil
will;
you
can
easily
forgive
them
for
your
child's
happiness.
Trust
me,
your
patience
will
definitely
win
you
the
respect
and
affection
from
others.
Take
your
child
into
confidence:
You
must
never
turn
your
child
against
his/her
in-laws.
It
is
always
better
to
avoid
any
bad
feeling
about
your
child's
in-laws
from
them.
However
if
your
child
feels
sorrowful
about
his/her
in-laws' ill
treatment
towards
you,
calm
them
down.
Convince
your
child
that
you
will
always
be
with
them
and
never
indulge
in
any
unnecessary
disputes.
Your
child
must
feel
that
you
are
the
best
parent
in
the
world
and
they
can
come
back
to
you
whenever
necessary.
The relationship between you and your child's in-laws may go to an averse condition even after all these necessary steps. In that pathetic condition avoid all the contacts with the unwanted family. Be with your child and his/her partner without any prejudice and they will recognize your value for sure!
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