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Best time to plan for the second baby

Are you ready for another child? You might just have started getting your full night's sleep with a toddler at home. But at the back of your head, you always know that your child will eventually need a sibling.

While the first pregnancy usually ‘happens’, the second one needs a lot of planning. While the first one changes your life, the second one will complete your family. You have to consider how that baby will affect your lifestyle, finances, work, relationships and family. You will be more prepared with this than you were with your first child.

Though there are many things that you need to ponder over before having a second child, it is recommended not to delay it too much. Planning for second baby is never going to be easy. Here are some factors that you need to consider when you are planning to have a second child.

Best time to plan for the second baby

Age
If you are wondering when to plan for second baby, the very first thing you need to consider is your age. If you are in your 30s, remember not to be too late. Your body will not be able to cope with pregnancy challenges as you grow old. The older you are, the more difficult it becomes.

Best time to plan for the second baby

Medical Conditions
Check your medical conditions. You will have a clear idea of this after the first child. If you have some serious medical condition, you can always ask your doctor to give you the right time for you to get pregnant again.

Best time to plan for the second baby

Finances
You should make sure that your finance is comfortable to have two kids in the family. If you and your partner feel you are quite comfortable financially, then there is no harm in deciding when to have your second baby.

Best time to plan for the second baby

Agreeing with the partner
This is a very important factor. You should have a good understanding with your partner. Otherwise, you are sure to have many more fights on mundane things, which is not something you will want with two kids in the house.

Best time to plan for the second baby

Lifestyle changes
You should be mentally prepared for all the pregnancy and parenting challenges before planning for the second baby. Now that you are aware of how things are going to be, you are sure to be more prepared than the first one. This will also make things easier for you.

Age of first child
Most parents prefer the time when the first child start going to nursery or school for planning the second one. This will give you enough time to care for the newborn. Remember, you should start working on it a year before your first kid joins school.

Story first published: Saturday, January 24, 2015, 10:18 [IST]
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