The Result Of Men's Ego Clashes

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By Super Admin

Monday, May 16, 2011, 17:06

Almost all men in the world have blamed for suffering for their ego clashes. Men strive to boost their ego even when many relationships are broken, so many opportunities lost, life turned into misery and left alone in the world. Here are the advantages and disadvantages of the much-discussed man's egos.

Man's ego first sprouts its visible head during the early teenage years. The entrance into adolescence makes him feel that he is capable to rule the world. The first punches to his ego arrive from own family as his parents criticize or compare his actions.

Even though men feel miserable at these comments; they also develop the desire to become independent to boost their egos. The negative impact of this ego clash is that some boys will foster unattainable dreams to boost their egos that will ultimately push them to depression and failures.

Men suffer the initiary punches to their egos in the real world from the peer group. A small drop out in the race of academics, appearance and extra curricular activities turn into a big ego punch to men. The mocking comments or offensive remarks from their friends can men drive men into utmost craziness at some times.

In a way these comments may help man's ego to cope with reality and negativity of the world around him. On the other hand these comments may turn man as cynical as his peer group.

The troubling ego clashes in man's life begin with his entry into profession. Many men quit their jobs for some pointing remarks during interviews and appraisals. A comparison of self with colleagues will always present the best version of the self to men.

There are men who never tolerate even a jovial chiding from their colleagues. This character to boost the ego is beneficiary only when the man stands for a real cause. On the other hand the boosted ego is spoiling his opportunities.

The major ego clash in men's life happens after marriage. Men often feel inferior to his wife when she attains high promotion, high salary or praise from others. Men with boosted ego often demand their wives to be submissive to them. Man may never like their wife or children to crack a jock at him.

The go clash in the family will do more harm than any other ego clashes. Men have to analyze whether his family or a boosted ego give him more satisfaction. When he demands more respect and obedience from his children; he has to remember that he also had undergone the same clash during his tender years.

Men must understand the difference between boosted ego and self-confidence to save themselves from many miseries of life. Do an ego check every day and reduce the ego clashes that will save you from many painful experiences in life.

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