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Does Your Ex Still Love You?

By Anvi Mehta

If you have parted ways with your boyfriend and still think that he is in love with you, there are many signs that can tell you this. But before we talk about them, let us first discuss the basics of a break up. Your break up is totally legitimate if and only if both of you know the reasons for the separation. If these reasons are not clear, think and talk over it with your ex-partner.

Sometimes, when the breakup is complicated, your ex might just love you the same. They might not move ahead in their life. A few symptoms that will help you know if your ex is still in love with you are:

Does Your Ex Still Love You?

Continuous Communication - The first rule of a breakup is to stop all communication. But if your ex doesn't follow this basic rule, and does not stop the texting and phone, you should be concerned about it. It means that he is thinking about you and showing interest. But just because he text messaged you doesn't mean that he wants you back but it is definitely a sign pointing in that direction. You should try and avoid him, if you do not want to end up in his arms again.

Keeps Interest In Your Life - If your ex wants to know everything about your life even after the break up, there are chances of him being in love with you. It may so happen that he will meet you everywhere possible, and might try to talk to your friends and ask about you. Sometimes, that would be a total coincidence, but most of the times it is a warning for you to stay clear with your feelings.

The Care Factor - Even after a brutal heartbreak, if your ex still wants to care for you like before and do everything possible to make you happy, there it is, your ex still loves you insanely. This is the biggest sign you could get. The extra caring might just be to convince you to get back together. The only option to get away from it is to stop every contact. That would help your ex to stop thinking about you and stay concerned for you.

Family Relationships - Isn't it a little weird and awkward for your ex to be in talking terms with your family even after your breakup? The situation gets complicated and complex when families are involved. When your ex stays in contact with your family, meets them regularly and is very friendly to them as before, it is one of the signs that your ex is still in love with you.

The Touch - When your ex tries to be comfortable and cozy with you physically even after the breakup, it is a sign that your ex still loves you. The touch is enough to instigate those suppressed feelings that your ex has kept buried. The touch might be a way to make things right between the two of you. So, if your ex hugs you like before or wants to hold your hands always, it is obvious the love is still there.

These are a few symptoms that can help you know if your ex has moved on. It might be difficult for the both of you, so take proper decisions if you observe any of these above traits in your ex.

Story first published: Saturday, November 9, 2013, 16:29 [IST]
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