7 Actions To Avoid When Fighting With a Loved One

Cutting The Call

You just had an argument and you cut the call suddenly. Your partner again calls and you cut it it again. He again calls to patch up and you again cut it.

Avoiding communication after a fight may reduce the chances of patching it up. If he wants to extinguish the fire, why avoid him?

Well, he may give up and stop calling if you don't answer calls for a few more times. If you don't wish to talk to him in a bad mood you answer the call and convey the same.

Challenging The Fighter

What happens when you throw petrol on fire? It fuels the fire. In the same way, challenging your partner during a fight may turn the fight into a physical one which is dangerous.

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Slamming The Door

Soon after a fight, if you slam the door, throw the flower vase on the wall and walk into the kitchen to make more noises, your partner may feel intimidated and shocked. Not being able to control your temper is seen as a weakness, not a strength!

Involving Others In The Fight

Imagine this. Your husband came home late and you are really upset. You quickly call your mom and start complaining that he is already late.

Your husband sees that, gets irritated and calls his mom and complains about you saying that you are again irritating him! It finally turns into a war between two families, right?

Dragging others into your fight is unnecessary when you can discuss and sort it out. If you invite others into your conflicts, they may own it and drive it in their own direction even if there is a peaceful solution.

Talking About Separation

If you utter the word divorce in every fight with your partner, your partner may feel insulted. Even if you have the intention of ending your marriage, uttering the word at the drop of the hat isn't a good idea.

Multiplying The Issues

When you are fighting on one issue, if you bring other issues and mix it up to gain advantage over your partner in a fight, you are making a big mess that may not easily get solved! If your partner also tries to dig your old mistakes then only god can save both of you!

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Not Sleeping Together

After a fight, it is natural to hate your partner for some time. But in the night, if you sleep in a separate room to avoid your partner's presence, the distance between you may increase. This is how ideas of break up may arise.