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Does Your Husband Criticise You?
Criticism is difficult to handle for anybody. In our daily life, we come across many people who criticise us and try to show us our faults. It is not necessary that all these people are correct. It may just be their point of view, a way of looking at things that make them say things. It is up to us to decide how we react to these critical remarks.
We cannot satisfy every soul on the planet and hence, we can move on with ease. But it is not so in all cases. There are exceptions. A husband criticising you can be rather difficult to handle. We must know how to deal with husband’s criticism.
When negative words pour in from someone very dear and close to us, it becomes difficult to overlook them. As members of the same family, living under the same roof and sharing every small thing in life, it cannot be possible to ignore words coming from them.
Once in a while, one can understand this, but when it becomes a daily affair, living together can become rather unbearable. It becomes very important to learn how to deal with a partner who criticises constantly.
You cannot become a saint and live a normal life with someone nagging behind you. A solution has to be found; measures have to be taken towards a better life. After all, who would like to live with a continuously criticising person? Take a look at some ways how you can handle this case.
Understand the situation: First and foremost, understand the situation. If this is a lately acquired habit, then there must be something bugging your husband. He may be having some problem which has made him irritable and that leads him to criticise you in everything you do. But if this is a usual feature, then you should be seasoned enough to know what sparks the criticism. Simply avoid such conditions.
Discuss with him: If you feel that your husband is facing a problem that is making him irritable, then talk to him. In times of distress, a person would always want someone to hear them. Possibly talking to you may help him better analyse the situation and the problem. It could even let you know the reasons of his irritable behaviour.
Do not counter criticise: How to deal with a husband who criticises? Never ever counter criticise. This will lead to nowhere and the already tense situation will flare up into a big storm. You surely would not like to live with a storm in your house. If he is mad at something, you must maintain your calm.
Do not get disheartened: Just because your husband criticises you, it does not mean you are doing things wrong. There could be a perspective he had which you cannot see or vice versa. Try to analyse the situation and pay attention to what he says. You might find the answer in his words too.
Ask him for a solution: If your husband criticises you for doing something in a particular way, then ask him for a solution. What if he had to do the same job? How would he handled it? You never know you might learn something from him.
Do not get defensive: If you are being criticised for something, try to explain your side of the story. Maintain a neutral tone, do not get defensive and try to save yourself. You are not a child who needs to be afraid of a punishment. You need to discuss things in the open.
Stay true to yourself: When discussing how to deal with a partner who criticises, we need not do things that affect him. On the contrary, you need to work on yourself. Stay true to yourself and ask yourself where you went wrong. If you find the answer, nothing like it. If you are unable to understand the reason of the criticism, then try talking to someone but never try to cheat yourself. It is not possible to lie to oneself.
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