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We, humans, have a varied way of thinking and this reflects in the way we feel the word love. Many people make many kinds of statements when it comes to love. Some say, "Love is a feeling of falling in the charms" while someone else says,"Love is the attachment of two individuals". We term love the way we feel is right. Talking about love in various ways and through various means conveys the variety of thinking each of us has. But what is love? Hardly anyone says it right.
The different thoughts in your mind that speak of love are not the real feeling of love. Love cannot be termed in one way direction. It is multidirectional and has many dimensions.
Let's see the feelings we term as love in our mind and why they are all crap.
1. Attachment Or Feeling Is Not Love
We think getting attached to someone is love. The feeling of attachment is love. I am sorry, it ain't love. It is the feeling of being attached. None tell us that!
We all think that accepting the attachment is love. Accepting attachment can be infatuation or it can be enmeshment, but it is not love. The motivation for attachment is insecurity. The only thing that gets us attached is the feeling of losing. That is insecurity we have in mind.
That is the reason when people break up, they feel alone. But the insecurity bundles them with the pain of losing in the inside and kills the beauty of the person.
2. Everything You Feel Is Not Love
When you are with your partner and things that you feel and term as love are not love. You cannot name everything as love. Love is different and it is not everything. Love cannot be a controlled emotion that can get controlled in a word, "everything'.
3. Hurtful Attitude
When you and your partner fight and then you try to reconcile by terming the fight as a passion of love for each other, it is not love. Love never hurts anyone. Fear, ego, and personal attitude towards another human hurts. When you try to hurt someone, it is not love that asks you to do, it is your own idea. Do not blame it on love.
4. Idea Of Love Is Not Love
Remember, the idea you have in your mind about love is not love. Love cannot be an idea in a mind. You see it everywhere and nowhere. Love is not at all an idea that resides in your mind. Love is not the word you suppose you know the meaning of.
5. Wanting Is Not Loving
Remember, when you end a relationship, the other person most of the time says, I want you in my life, please don't leave. That is not love. Wanting and cravings are desire but not love. Love is purely different.
6. Beauty Is Not What Love Seeks
If
you
are
with
your
partner
for
the
beauty
they
possess
and
you
are
just
attracted
to
it,
you
need
to
know
it
is
not
beauty.
Beauty
cannot
be
termed
as
love.
When
your
partner
asks,
"Why
are
you
with
me?" and
you
reply,
"
Because
you
have
the
most
beautiful
eyes
and
I
cannot
take
my
eyes
off
them",
it
is
not
love.
It
is
attraction.
Terming
attraction
to
certain
features
of
the
human
body
as
love
is
not
what
love
stands
for.
Attraction
is
far
different
than
love!
7. Expectation And Projection Are Not Love!
When you meet the expectation of your partner and they project a kiss on your lips, it is not love. It is them getting their work done and paying you in return. There is no love but a barter system. Expectations and projection are not love.
When you constantly change your partner, your friends ask you to stay with the last one and not jump for the next one. This is because they cannot expect the change and they just want you to settle for someone or the other. They cannot accept the fact that you are not happy. But they just want you to settle with someone. This kind of expectation is not love.
8. Having Same Thought Process
If you think you and your partner share a similar thought process, you are wrong to call it love. Having similar thought process can never be love but a fact that you both vibe in the same pace.
9. Completion Is Not Love
When
you
think
that
my
half
and
his
half
bring
up
one
and
that
is
love,
you
are
wrong.
Love
is
the
multiplication
of
two
whole
numbers
and
forming
one.
It
is
not
addition.
Completion
of
yourself
as
one
and
then
multiplying
with
another
one
who
is
complete
in
himself
lead
to
the
love
you
talk
about.
All these are just a way of saying you are in love but these do not mean love. Thoughts of love are pure and achieving it is the goal.
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