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10 Things To Never Tolerate In A Relationship

By Debdatta Mazumder

You all know that love is blind. But, love must not be so blind that you can't see the faults in your partner.

It is true that when two people with different mentality stay together, conflict is inevitable. But, if you can't overcome those conflicts with calmness, then there is no meaning being in such a relationship.

Relationships must be open, where both the partners can love each other intently and also point out the faults of each other.

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However, sometimes, people get so blind about their partner's faults, that these faults become larger in the future. Maybe you're tolerating his/her harsh words today just because you don't want to lose him/her now.

But there is a limitation of your tolerance level. Have you ever imagined what you will do then? Therefore, it is very important to know what you should not tolerate in a relationship.

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There are several things to never tolerate in a relationship. The underlined meaning of these things is that, if there is something which comes to your self-respect, you should protest.

If your partner has respect for you, he/she will understand and won't repeat it again. If not, then this is a high time to move on. Here are a few things to never tolerate in a relationship. Read on to know more.


1. Violence:

Don't give a second thought to the relationship because there is no such thing in between you. Violence can never be tolerated, whether it comes from a man or a woman. Not only that, but you should take steps, so that the person does not ruin someone else's life like that.


2. Emotional Or Verbal Abuse:

What you should not tolerate in a relationship? Physical violence leaves marks on the body, but emotional abuse is hard to find, as there is no sign of it. Many of you don't realise that you're facing it every day. You become so engrossed with this that you fail to recognise an emotional abuse.


3. Cheating:

Trust is one of the strongest pillars of any relationship. If that is broken once, it is quite difficult to live with doubts against your partner. How can you believe the person who has cheated you once? There is no guarantee that he/she won't do it again.


4. Forced Sex:

Many of you aren't aware of the word ‘Marital Rape'. People think it is the duty of a wife to get ready when the husband wants. You have every right to walk out, if this is happening to you. Even if you're forced to do something you're not comfortable with, you can move on.


5. Verbal Aggression:

Often people ignore this. Now, it is normal that during a heated discussion you may not keep up with the patience. But, shouting, scorning, making below the belt comments, etc, are really annoying. Obviously, these are the things that you should never tolerate in a relationship.


6. Body Shaming:

Does your partner call you fat in front of your friends? Does he/she make abusive comments on your look and appearance? Then, you should protest against this. Any kind of shaming your partner does either personally or publicly, it is highly immature and cruel.


7. Last On The List:

It is true that your partner can't give you the first priority always. He/she has several other commitments to fulfill as well. But, are you continuously lagging behind on his/her list. Is he/she always taking you for granted? Then, this is what you should not tolerate in a relationship.


8. Controlling Your Other Relationships:

If you're in love with someone, it doesn't mean you have to say goodbye to your parents and friends. So, if you find your partner trying to control all your relationships, talk about it. This is definitely one of the things to never tolerate in a relationship.


9. Detract Your Aspirations:

A relationship can work if your partner doesn't respect your dream and aspirations. If he/she is not happy with your success and forces you to leave your career, it is better to leave the relationship.


10. Lying:

While talking about the things to never tolerate in a relationship, consider this as the most important. Don't consider white lies like, ‘You look superb in that dress'. But, if your partner is hiding his/her financial condition, details on mental or physical health, family background, etc, then move on from that relationship.

Read more about: love and romance relationship
Story first published: Sunday, June 12, 2016, 14:00 [IST]
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