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Why Single Men Chase Married Women?

A young, single man with a much married woman; haven't we heard this story a numerous times? Does it ever bother you why men like married women when they themselves are single? It is a cliché that has been done to death and yet there are enough number of real cases to support the paradigm. There must be something convenient for single men to date married women.


There are many obvious reasons for married women to cheat. They get kicks out of having a new man, as they get stuck in loveless marriages and so on. But what is the part of the deal that entices an unmarried man to date a married woman? Actually, single men have much more to gain from a relationship with a married older woman and absolutely nothing to lose.

Apart from commitment which men hate anyway, men get everything from a married woman. For brownie points, married women are not as egoistic or quarrelsome as single girls. They do not have absurd demands from a relationship with a single man.

Here are some very relevant reasons why single men pursue married women.


It's Easy

Dating a married woman is much easier than dating a single woman. This is because, a married woman would rarely play hard to get. Usually, they are more than happy to get the attention of a single man.


No Strings Attached

If you want to have a short fling or a one night stand, a married woman is the perfect partner. They do not expect you to call them back after you have had a crazy night together. So it's convenient.


No Cold Wars Or Arguments

When you are dating an unmarried girl, she will have her tantrums. She will give you silent treatment after fights and expect you to cajole her. But with a married woman, your rendezvous will always be secret and hurried. No time for fighting or making up.


Getting The Unattainable

Married woman is something that is unattainable for a single man. So having what is denied to you traditionally has its own thrill.


The Experience Is Welcome

A married woman can be a good partner to gain some experience about relationships. A single man can learn a lot from an experienced woman and use it when he is in a real relationship.


No Need For Gifts

You don't have to spend too much on a married woman. She does not expect expensive gifts but only flattery.


No Talks Of A Future

There is no question of a married woman leaving her husband for you. She is probably looking for some cheap thrills to break the monotony of a boring marriage.


Easy To Dispose

If a married woman tries to blackmail her single lover, he can arm twist her right away. He can always threaten to tell her husband, children and family. She has more to lose than him anyway.


You Can Always Hook Up On The Side

You need not be bound to a married woman even when you are with her. As there is no real commitment, you can always hook up with other girls while you are dating a married woman.


She Is Cheating, Not You

And if you suddenly have a call of conscience, then you can take comfort in the fact that she is the one who is cheating, not you.

Story first published: Monday, September 22, 2014, 21:29 [IST]
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