Worry Patters Affect Decision Making!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010, 14:10

When we fall into this software, this worry, again and again, we often end up in dilemma.

What is a dilemma? It is moving back and forth when making a decision. The moving happens because there are so many thoughts inside you trying to put their signatures on your final decision! There is a great conflict between these thoughts because they were recorded at different times and under different circumstances. So they conflict with each other when a decision has to be made. This conflict becomes your dilemma. For each person, the dilemma is different. There are no standards or rules for a dilemma.

A small story:

One friend said to the other, 'I am in love with two girls. One is very beautiful, but has no money. The other one is not that beautiful, but she has a lot of money. Who should I marry?"

His friend replied, 'I am sure that you really love the beautiful girl, so I think you should marry her."

The man was relieved. He said, 'Thank you very much!"

The friend asked, 'I wonder if you could give me the name and telephone number of the other girl!"
The crisis is different for every person because the mind is made up of a unique set of thoughts for each person. When the thoughts are different, the dilemma becomes different. The worry becomes different.