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Fantasy And Reality
A small story:
One 90-year old man used to sit every day at the beach from morning to evening, watching the people at the beach.
Another man who noticed this went up to him and asked him, "What do you actually do sitting here everyday?" The old man replied, "I am searching for a woman to be my wife." The man was simply shocked at this reply and asked him, "Why did you not search in your youth?" The old man replied, "I have been searching since I was 30 years old."
The
man
was
astonished
and
asked
him,
"What
sort
of
a
woman
are
you
searching
for?"
He
replied,
"I
am
searching
for
a
perfect
woman."
"And
you
haven't
found
one?"
the
man
asked.
"I
found
one
woman
who
matched
what
I
had
in
mind
but
it
didn't
work
out
well
with
her,"
replied
the
old
man.
The
man
asked
why.
The
old
man
replied,
"She
was
searching
for
a
perfect
man!"
(Loud laughter!)
This is what happens when we try to get a perfect match for the image that we carry inside us.
But after a long search, we suddenly find a person who seems to match our mental image – from a distance. The picture in our mind is green – and the person, the image that we see also seems to be green – and then, all is green! A match seems to be found!
What happens at this point is what is called 'falling in love'. This is the science behind falling in love. Note that it is always 'falling' in love, never 'raising' in love! It is nothing more than the mischief of the hormones, masquerading as love. Because what actually happens is, because of our own strong needs and expectations, we see things as we want to see them. We project our mental image upon the other.
So anyway, the world becomes filled with greenery and music. Life becomes poetry. At last, our search is over! This is the stage at which we begin to write poetry, make paintings of each other and what not.
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