After marriage, there are a lot of changes which takes place in a couple's life. It is sometimes easy to accept the changes and most of the time it is difficult to accept.
In India, when a woman gets married she has to undergo a lot of changes in her life. Most of these changes are for her husband, to keep him happy, no matter what.
Women who are married in an arranged agreement take a long time to get comfortable in her husband's home, and if friends are an important part of his life, it becomes a bit tougher. Most of the Indian men live for their friends and after marriage it is not easy for the man to let go of his friend circle, just for his wife. Yes, there might be a few men who will make this gigantic sacrifice, but not all.
So, in cases where friends still continue to be a part of the man's life, it is time for the woman to learn and accept them too. Today, this article advices married women on how to welcome and treat her husband's friends, whether she likes them or not.
So, ladies take a look at these tips to deal with the hubby's friends:
Ladies, Be Firm - When it comes to his friends, make sure you as his wife is firm in the decisions you make as a couple. If your not comfortable hanging with the group of guys, be firm and tell your man. Honesty pays off!
Accept His Bro-Time! - If your hubby's life is his friends, make sure you let him know that you as his wife is important too. Make him understand that your totally cool with him hanging around with his friends but not all the time!
Introduce Your Friends Too - When it comes to meeting up with the gang, make it a point to introduce your friends too. In this way, you will not feel uncomfortable while his friends are around.
The Outings - One of the perfect way to handle the husband's friends is to let him know that friends are not allowed when the two of you are together. Allowing a third person in the relationship and in your private time will only steal those magical moments.
Take Sense - When your catching up with the husband's friends, brush up on the latest news like cricket, football, and even politics. It will enable you to talk sense at the table.
Set Those Ground Rules - Ground rules should be there in every relationship. If you and the hubby some rules to follow, your marriage will last life long.