6 Signs That Your Mother-in-law Hates You

After marriage, a girl needs to move into her husband's house in India. Half of the problems start there if the man stays with his parents. In some cases, when the mother-in-law is an understanding one, things would be different. Well, what if your mother-in-law hates you? How would your marital life be? Are there any signs your mother-in-law hates you? It goes without saying that life would be miserable if you are surrounded by people who hate you vehemently, day in and day out. It is almost like living with an enemy, right?

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In some cases, it would even be difficult to know whether your mother-in-law hates you or loves you because some women can pretend so well that you can't even make out that they are displaying plastic smiles. That is why you must know about certain signs your mother-in-law hates you. Here are they:

6 signs your mother-in-law hates you

She hijacks the wedding event
You must have observed this during your wedding event. She tried to be the centre of attraction, right? She was everywhere in the venue commanding and demanding everyone. She wanted to give the picture that she is the 'best' around. She must have tried to portray that her family is superior to that of yours. She must have made the wedding a grand affair, at your expense! This is one of the first signs your mother-in-law hates you.

She assumes that you are inferior in all aspects
The way she spoke to you or behaved with you must have already given you the feeling that she is the best woman on this planet and you are a 'dust particle' in front of her. Of course, that is what she wants. She wants you to believe that you are nothing in front of her. She enjoys that feeling! She gets her high while suppressing your ego. This is one of the signs your mother-in-law hates you.

She joins both of you for the honeymoon trip!
You were shocked when you saw your mother-in-law in the honeymoon spot but it was actually preplanned. Of course, even your husband didn't know of his own mom's plans. Yes, your honeymoon was a flop because of her presence.

She gradually creates rifts with your husband
If your mother-in-law hates you, she will enjoy if you and her son quarrels. She gets her sadistic pleasure if you suffer more. But, what she is not realising is the fact that she is playing with her own son's marital life. She will soon realise her mistake. What to do when your mother-in-law hates you? Be patient till your husband gets to know about the truth; or bring such issues to his notice.

She never lets you spend quality time with her pampered son
She hates to see you hugging her son! Don't ever do that in front of her. She might even ensure that you never get enough time to spend with him. When your mother-in-law hates you, she will go to any extent to win the battle.

She gradually tries to dictate your life
She will slowly ask you to do all the household work and she sits and parties the whole day. This is one of the most important signs your mother-in-law hates you. You must deal with such issues carefully without spoiling your marital bond.