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Apologise To Wife After A Fight: Way

By Sheetal Tewari

There are lovely moments in a couple's life which make them feel at the top of the world. You feel yourself as the most fortunate person of the world when you love someone, and feel truly loved by him. You blindly believe whatever he says and does for you and expect the same.

Love, faith and expectations are sometimes too much to fulfill and become the base of most of the fights between couples. Although, one cannot avoid such fights totally as it is born out of our love and affection which is real, but we can always have a solution for it. We can apologise after a fight and being a husband if you take its initiative, you will definitely be called the ‘best husband' of the world. If you really love your wife and want to avoid fights between you and your wife, then it is not a big price to pay. Your initiatives, love and acceptance will definitely melt her heart, and she will shower all her love on you.

There are many ways in which you can apologise to your wife after a fight. If she loves eating out, you can arrange for a surprise candle-light dinner or if she loves travelling, take her out for a long romantic drive. Send her flowers, chocolates, a romantic letter or some lovely dresses she likes.For you, we have compiled a few ideas of saying sorry to your wife after a fight. Let's have a look on them:

Take initiative

Take initiative

You were extremely angry and said very hurtful things to your wife, but what now? You cannot change what you have said or done during the fight but make up for it. Keep aside your ego and talk to her when she is calm. Sometimes, your initiative solves all the problems.

Be a little romantic

Be a little romantic

You apologised by saying you are sorry for your behaviour, but she is still not looking into your eyes. So, be a little romantic and cheer her up. Remember, a sweet kiss on her cheeks still make her blush when it is full of love and warmth.

Accept and let her accept

Accept and let her accept

Who was to be blamed for the fight; you or her? Accept that one has to apologise. You might be right but apologise so that there is a room for discussion later on. If you are not at fault and apologised, she will also realise and accept her mistake.

Roses and gifts

Roses and gifts

Girls love flowers and gifts, so does your wife. You fought in the morning and left home angry. No worries! Simply send her flowers and chocolates, she will not only forgive you, but also welcome you with warm love in the evening.

Candle light dinner

Candle light dinner

A romantic candle light dinner is always a great idea for couples. It is very much possible that she won't accept your invitation as she is angry, but you have to play smart here. Ask her best friend or sister to bring her to the table. Once she is there, things are in your hands.

I am the ‘sinner’

I am the ‘sinner’

Tell her that you are the ‘bad guy' who always hurt her and should be punished for it. Make her feel that you have made a very big mistake even if it was a petty issue. Believe me; she will melt immediately because she loves you a lot.

Discuss the problem

Discuss the problem

Although you have apologised for the fight, but make sure you discuss the issue with her when she is in a good mood. It helps a lot as while discussing the real problem comes out which you can solve together.

Write a letter

Write a letter

If you are not able to talk to her, write a letter or a small note saying ‘sorry'. If possible, prefer writing a letter and express your regret and love for her. This letter will bring a big smile on your face whenever you both will read it together.

Give it time

Give it time

The fight was big and you both are not willing to talk to each other for some time. In such cases, it is better to leave it for a while and talk later, so that you both have some time to think about it. Give her some time and then apologise, she will definitely understand.

You love her

You love her

Girls are very emotional and always want extra care, and pampering from husbands. Most of the time her insecurities and affections are the core reason of the fights and it is your duty to make her feel loved. Make her feel that she is the most special person of your life and you will never leave her alone.

Story first published: Tuesday, November 26, 2013, 19:01 [IST]
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