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10 Reasons Why Things Should Not Be Taken For Granted In A Relationship

By Debdatta

Love is the best blessing of the almighty that human being has got. But these days relationships are taken for granted by us knowingly or unknowingly. We should ensure that we balance it well for a happy life. When you are in a relationship, you are like going through a trial period to know each other. When you fall in love, the world seems to be poetic. The outburst of our emotion make you realise how blessed you are to get him or her in your life. Don't end up with love taken for granted!

Being in a relationship is not enough. You need to know the ways of managing relationships. Love relationship is kind of a weak sapling. If you tender it, pamper it, water it correctly, & one day it will stretch its strong roots throughout your life and the fruits love will be sweeter than ever. But it is not duty of one. Both of you must be enough compatible and co-operative to each other and while making sure that you giving space in a relationship.

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Actually, love is kind of a river. At the beginning days it flows rapidly with sheer force. But as you grow older, the emotional outbursts lessen and love flows like a stream. It is there but the force is not there. Here you overlook certain things of your person or don’t want to indulge in those. A taking for granted mentality also grows and this is bad. Don’t take relationships or love for granted, because then managing relationships can be much harder. Here are some reasons why you don’t take relationships for granted.

Lose Your Love

Lose Your Love

What can be more disheartening than taking him/her for granted? You need to make your beloved feel important; sometimes you should utter those three magical words.

Lose Respect

Lose Respect

Don't take relationships for granted or you will lose respect. If you continue with your harsh behaviour, it will not take time to come the same thing from the opposite.

Your Beloved Can Be Secretive

Your Beloved Can Be Secretive

Managing relationships are not hard if you listen carefully when they tell you something. Because if you continue to overhear them, after some time your partner will not tell you anything.

Lose Importance

Lose Importance

Any kind of relationship is based on give and take equation to some extent. If you take your lover granted, soon you may not have any importance to him/her.

Hurts A Lot

Hurts A Lot

This is the ultimate reason. You may not want to, but sometimes your avoiding or ignorant nature may feel them isolated. So, don't do that. Nourish your relationship and it will return you lots of beautiful feelings.

Nervous Breakdown

Nervous Breakdown

The worst thing can happen if you don't check your behaviour at right time. Women mainly suffer from this. If your lady is suppressive in nature, you will never understand the decay she is going through internally. Managing relationships in right time may save the loss.

Repetitive Breakups

Repetitive Breakups

Sometimes you don't understand why your relationships don't sustain after your efforts of managing relationships. This is because you take your relationships for granted. Be cautious and put some effort to change your behaviour.

Make You Look Irresponsible

Make You Look Irresponsible

Do you forget your partner's birthday or your anniversary or any important duties you need to perform? Then you must have taken things granted. This will come at your negativity to make you look irresponsible.

Stress On Your Professional Life

Stress On Your Professional Life

If your personal life is not peaceful then your professional life will be a mess. To make your professional life stable, managing relationships on personal level is must.

Tear You Apart

Tear You Apart

The pain of heartbreaking is kind of unbearable. Sometimes you don't understand why this happens to you. Just give a look to your behaviour whether you have taken your relationship granted. Time will heal everything but if you don't change yourself, then it's your fault.

Story first published: Thursday, February 5, 2015, 18:04 [IST]