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Ways To Avoid Arguments With Your Boyfriend

Pointless arguments, heartbreaking fights, crying overnight, waiting for that one text message or call! We are sure most of you must have experienced this sometime in your relationship. Fighting and bickering once in a while is considered healthy for a relationship. However if the arguments and fights become a routine affair, the situation may become troublesome for both the partners.

If you are in a relationship where you fight almost on a regular basis, then there is definitely something to worry about. If you are fighting every day with your partner, it means there are some major unresolved issues between the two of you.

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Men and women tend to think differently. This difference in thinking is what creates the clashes, misunderstandings and conflicts. So, if you have been having heated arguments with your boyfriend over trivial as well as major issues, then you have to understand this difference in thinking. It does not mean you have to abandon your ideas and agree with everything he says. But showing empathy and working together as a team is the only solution to both of your problems.

Here is what you need to do in order to avoid arguing with your boyfriend.

Don't Wait To Express

Don't Wait To Express

Many women have the tendency to keep quiet over things which make them upset. They bring up these pent up matters later and a trivial fight turns into a war of words. So, don't wait for a later date to bring up issues. If you have a problem, then just express it then and there. It will save you the mental trauma and inner frustrations too.

He Will Never Read Your Mind

He Will Never Read Your Mind

Men have a very bad intuition sense. They would not even realise that you are upset over something until you tell them. So, don't expect him to read your mind. Just say it when you have a problem.

How To Express Without Fighting

How To Express Without Fighting

Sometimes you may be afraid to express your feeling in front of your partner fearing that it may cause a major row. It is especially true for those girls who have a hot-headed boyfriend. Your raised tone or facial expression is enough to set the cannon on fire. So, approach your problem with a more positive attitude. Suggest solutions to your problems and involve your guy in it. You have to ask him to know how he feels about the problem and you also have to be prepared to listen to what he has to say.

Avoid These When Expressing

Avoid These When Expressing

  • Do not, under any circumstance, raise your voice. Try to keep it normal and neutral.
  • Don't bring up old tales in your present situation. Let bygones be bygones and talk about the problem at hand.
  • Don't involve a third person to resolve your issues.
  • Don't talk at bed time. It will never solve the issue.
Let The Intimacy Prevail

Let The Intimacy Prevail

No matter how much you fight with your boyfriend, never let the intimacy in your relationship go away. Spend quality time together, go out for movies and walks, pleasantly surprise each other with unexpected moves. This will keep your bond stronger and ultimately your arguments will stop.

Story first published: Wednesday, March 5, 2014, 18:43 [IST]
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