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6 Ways To Commit To Your Girlfriend

It will be difficult to find a man or woman not interested in finding his/her soul mate. We don’t know whether the famous saying ‘love makes the world go round’ is true or not. But, love sure is the most powerful thing in this world. History is strewn with instances of men committing the most brave and splendid acts all in the name of love. Monuments have been built and empires overthrown all for the sake of love.

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Falling in love is comparatively easy since gravity does the work for you, but staying in love is a little difficult as it requires some sacrifices. When you are young and in love you do not look further than a date to the high school prom, but as you grow older, the need to commit to your relationship arises. Of course, this applies only if you are currently in a relationship with the person you feel is ‘the one and only’ for you.

If that is the case, let us now examine various ways to commit to your girlfriend.

Is your girlfriend ready

Is your girlfriend ready

Most people view men as commitment shy, but women too have their fears of commitment like a previous bad relationship or emotional scars from their childhood. Before you even think about how to commit to your girlfriend, make sure that she is ready for it.

Be yourself

Be yourself

When you wonder how to commit to your girlfriend, we would suggest that you be true to yourself. Your girlfriend is valuing your relationship. So, be honest with her and stop trying to impress. You've already done that.

Woo her:

Woo her:

Most men fail to see that one of the ways to commit to your girlfriend is to woo her. The old fashioned courtship is desired by most women. It tickles her fancy, shows that you care and is also absurdly romantic.

Communication

Communication

When you learn how to commit to your girlfriend, you realise that communication is the key. You need to let her know how you feel. Be honest in your conversations and follow your heart.

 Do not overwhelm

Do not overwhelm

When pondering over how to commit to your girlfriend, take care that you do not overwhelm her. Don't make her feel that you are trying to bribe her feelings. Give her enough space and time to reach the decision herself.

Are you ready

Are you ready

Before you ponder the ways to commit to your girlfriend, ask yourself whether you are ready for the next step? That might mean thinking about getting engaged, moving in together or getting married.

Story first published: Saturday, February 15, 2014, 22:30 [IST]
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