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9 Reasons Why He Won't Sleep With You

When a woman does not want to make love, there could be a thousand reasons. Women are complex beings who are difficult to understand. The reasons for a woman avoiding sex could range from the wrong kind of cologne to a terrible headache. Why men don't want to have sex is a serious issue. If you are wondering why he won't sleep with you, we can help you figure out.

It is true that men have intercourse on their mind all the time. But they do not necessarily want to have sex with just any woman. The problem can be in many different places. Suppose you have met this guy, you hit it off well and even had a few steamy make out sessions. But you are at loss thinking why he won't sleep with you?

11 REASONS WOMEN AVOID INTERCOURSE

Don't think too much, the problem may not be with you. He could just be tired or have performance anxiety in bed. There could also be a number of strange reasons why men don't want sex that will completely catch you off guard.

Here are some very real reasons why he won't sleep with you.

He is nervous

He is nervous

He probably thinks that you are a sex diva and he cannot match up to your standards. So he is keeping his zip up until he can figure out the best ways to please you in bed.

He wants you to think he is a gentleman

He wants you to think he is a gentleman

Well, this kind of guy is rare and if you find him, hold on to him. Not only does he want you to think he is a gentleman, but he is truly one.

You stink or have bad breath

You stink or have bad breath

Most men say that body odour and bad breath turn them off completely. So if you have either or both of these problems, you will not get much action in bed.

You are wearing grandma panties

You are wearing grandma panties

Many men have a fetish for sexy lingerie. What men really want is for you to wear some classy undergarments. If you disappoint him by wearing grandma panties and nursing bras, he will get put off.

He likes the chase

He likes the chase

Well, men like the 'chase' more than the result in a relationship. So may be he is enjoying the chase a bit too much to give up on it just yet. Good, toy with some more to increase his desperation.

He isn't carrying protection

He isn't carrying protection

Most guys are pretty conscious about safe sexual practices these days. So he wants to keep you and himself safe from STDs or a unwanted pregnancy.

He is too tired

He is too tired

He has had a really long day at work and he is just can't find the energy to hop into bed with you. He would much rather snooze till day break. Cut the poor guy some flak.

He is cheating

He is cheating

He probably has a steady girlfriend and is cheating on her. But he is basically a good guy who is having a call of conscience. So, he is delaying the actual act of cheating.

You don't turn him on

You don't turn him on

He is not putting the effort to manoeuver you into the sack because he has assumed you are not too good between the sheet. Either change his perception or he will dump you soon enough.

Story first published: Friday, August 8, 2014, 17:51 [IST]