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How To Deal When Boyfriend's Best Friend Is His Ex
Love means different things for each one of us. For some, it makes the world go round. For others, it makes the lonely road worthwhile. It is also painful for quite a few. Well, to surmise it in layman terms, love is an amalgamation of various emotions; some good and some not so good.
What could make it complicated can range from a simple misunderstanding to a spat about the superior Star Wars movie. So, your boyfriend's ex, who also happens to be your guy's best friend, can throw things off balance.
5 Signs Your Boyfriend Wants To Go Back To His Ex
There can be a plethora of reasons for your boyfriend to be best friends with his ex. They might have been best friends before they started dating each other. Or maybe they understand each other so well that they figured out they don't belong to each other! Sounds strange but the world is huge and possibilities are numerous.
It does hurt to play second fiddle at times but you have to remember that you are the "chosen one". There's a lot of difference between "playing the cool woman" and actually "being cool". Make sure that your boyfriend is cool with you being friends with your ex as well.
So, instead of thinking, "Why does my boyfriend still talk to his ex girlfriend?", and such trivialities, concentrate on how you can deal with it and be awesome together.
Communicate
"Assumptions
are
the
termites
of
relationships."
-
Henry
Winkler
The
above
quote
holds
very
true
for
relationships.
Lack
of
communication
makes
you
assume
things
and
that
in
turn
corrodes
the
relationship.
Speak
to
your
boyfriend
about
him
being
best
friend
with
his
ex.
After
all,
it
is
only
fair
that
he
knows
how
you
feel.
Time
"No
matter
how
'busy'
a
person
is,
if
they
really
care,
they
will
always
find
time
for
you."
-
Unknown
Time
is
the
most
valuable
thing
you
could
possibly
give
to
a
person.
Make
memories
together
whenever
you
spend
time
together.
It's
important
to
understand
that
it's
a
busy
world
out
there.
Your
boyfriend
will
probably
want
to
spend
time
with
his
ex-girlfriend,
now
best
friend,
but
you
also
need
to
make
time
for
each
other.
Comparisons
"Comparison
is
the
death
of
joy."
-
Mark
Twain
Mark
Twain
was
so
right!
Comparisons
mostly
do
no
good.
Human
psychology
is
a
weird
little
thing.
We
are
known
to
seek
out
partners
who
mostly
resemble
each
other
in
appearance
or
character
traits.
So,
stop
comparing
yourself
with
his
ex
or
trying
to
find
an
answer
as
to
why
your
boyfriend
has
a
girl
as
a
best
friend.
You
might
find
something
you
never
really
wanted
to
know.
Respect
"Respect
is
what
we
owe;
love
is
what
we
give."
-
Philip
James
Bailey
Respect
your
boyfriend
and
his
choices.
It
might
be
anything,
ranging
from
the
clothes
he
wears,
to
the
friends
he
has.
He
wants
to
be
a
friend
with
his
ex,
so
be
it.
But
remember
that
respect,
as
so
many
other
human
emotions,
is
a
two-way
street.
Insecurities
"There
is
no
such
thing
as
perfect
security,
only
varying
levels
of
insecurity."
-
Salman
Rushdie
As
we
suggested
earlier,
communicate.
But
what
do
you
communicate?
Speak
about
the
things
that
are
bothering
you.
Remember
not
to
be
clingy
though.
It
is
true
that
guys
get
irritated
easily
and
if
you
keep
expressing
your
insecurities,
he
is
bound
to
avoid
you.
Trust
"Love
all,
trust
a
few,
do
wrong
to
none."
-
William
Shakespeare
Like
in
any
relationship,
establish
trust.
Trust
him
to
do
the
right
thing.
Even
if
you
have
a
tight
schedule
and
your
boyfriend
spends
more
time
with
his
ex,
there
is
nothing
to
be
worried
about.
Let
him
know
that
you're
cool
with
it.
If
anything,
he
will
end
up
loving
you
even
more.
Try being Friends:
What if you could actually establish a bond with your boyfriend's ex-cum-best friend? It's not as difficult or weird as you think it is. You might eventually end up spending more time with your boyfriend and his best friend. Stop thinking of yourself as the third wheel and accept the fact that your boyfriend has a girl best friend and she just happens to be his ex.
Soul mates:
"I
used
to
believe
in
one
true
soul
mate,
but
not
anymore.
I
believe
you
can
have
a
few."
-
Paul
Walker
Don't
be
caught
up
with
the
idea
that
since
you
are
the
love
of
his
life,
you're
also
supposed
to
be
his
soul
mate.
A
soul
mate
can
even
be
your
friend.
And
there
is
no
compulsion
that
you've
to
have
just
a
single
soul
mate.
They
can
be
more
than
one
and
it
doesn't
have
to
be
your
partner.
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