How Men Can Handle A Breakup

Men are often labeled as philanderers by society. Most women tend to believe that men don’t feel anything. They are emotionless! Well, that’s not true! Emotion is a basic human instinct and no gender is spared of it, not even men. They may not show it, unlike women, but they surely feel the hurt and sadness that women so openly express.

Yes, men do get hurt and those of you who don’t want to believe it need a reality check. In a break up, it's both the partners who suffer and mourn, sometimes men do it more than the women. Men have their own ways of coping with it. Boldsky shares with you break up advice for men in this article.

There are many things that men are regularly blamed of. The top of the chart is that men don’t get hurt when they go through a break up. Who said so? Do you really believe that women mourn and men just casually leave it off? Well, that is a myth! Men, on the contrary, mourn worse than women. Break up for them is as serious as it is for women.

HOW TO GET NAUGHTY IN A RELATIONSHIP

There are many ways in which a relationship can end. It could be while fighting or when both of you end up crying. Some relationships just end! When a relationship ends, men need to handle it as much as women do. Here are a few ways in which men generally handle break ups:

Going Cold
Often men tend to go cold when their relationship breaks off. This does not mean that they don’t experience any hurt. Of course they do! But, they don’t like sharing their emotions with others. For them, the whole experience seems like a mansion of hurt that has crippled them from within. Sharing the experience would be like reliving the moment, which they, however, prefer to avoid. They prefer avoiding an emotional outburst which would make the situation worse for both the partners. This is probably why they cut down on the communication front, go cold and become so unruly.

Hooks up with every girl
Yes, there are men who tend to behave in this manner when they break off. In fact, most men tend to go right out into another relationship. There is reason behind running into a relationship directly after breaking up. The need to be with someone, to have someone around him is so high that he just jumps into another relationship. But, a guy going and hooking up with every other girl has a different need to fulfill. The devastating experience of a break up can make a guy sell himself. This may sound harsh to the ears but this is the truth. When he is in a relationship, he tends to avoid bringing out the core self from within. But when it ends, he evaluates himself and does not like the new person he is. This is one reason of hooking up with every other girl.

Friends are saviours
There are men out there who don’t do either of the above. Instead they prefer hanging out with friends they neglected for so long. They just go drinking, partying or probably just freaking out. Yes, friends are their sole way out of the break up issue. He does not really want to deal with his emotions. He just wants to leave it for a later hour. This is probably why he goes hanging around with friends.

Work is worship
Many men find their way into work just to ensure they forget the break up. They immerse themselves into work to such an extent that they fall out of this emotional torture that a breakup offers them.