Top 4 Things A Player Never Does

It is clearly unfair to categorise players and stereotype their traits and personalities because not all players are the same, though there are certain ground rules that they hold base of. Therefore, there are certain things that would never find a place in a player’s dictionary and there are others that will never escape his conversations.

With at least 40 percent of the women realising that their boyfriend or husband is a player much later in their relationship, there is a growing concern among women to know how it is that they can spot a player on their first date itself.

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This guide on the things that a player never will never do or say can help you spot a player in an instant.

He will never say “I love you”
This is one of the things a player never says. A lot of players, who are by their very true nature a player, will not juggle a woman’s emotion just to get to her pants. While this often does stem out from the innate dislike towards commitment, they are also purely humane. A player will save you a lot of emotional turmoil. Only the cruelest of players would give his hand to a woman who is fondly in love with them to fulfill their desires.

He will never throw a “hell may care” attitude at you
One of the things a player never does is this: he will never be disinterested in your hobbies or activities. You will always hear a married or already committed man throwing such an attitude at his partner, but never a player. This is because players have not accepted their fate and are still interested in the proceedings. A player is neither a doormat nor is he uninterested in taking suggestions from you for plans for the rest of the evening. Saying “I don’t care” gives an impression of a weak personality and players have a more than strong personality to say it.

He will never invite you to bed straight
Yes, this is another thing a player never does. A player will exhibit a certain degree of sophistication and class. He doesn’t want to be drained away or be termed as an easy target. He wants to be earned. To ask a woman if she wants to sleep with him and that too in the face is not only gross, it is also disrespectful. The transition to conversations and then a steamy romance in the bed is often wordless as far as players are concerned. Therefore, a player is skilled in his art of seduction.

He would never put you off when you are shopping
A player never does this – he would never tell you to not buy something because it is expensive or deserving of a lesser cost. In fact, he may think of it, but never let it slip out of his mouth. Money is not always a prerequisite to be a player, though it does help a lot. Now, if a player expresses his disinterest in purchasing something because it is expensive, the woman will take him to be a cheap fellow whether he has the money or not.