15 Characteristics Of An Ideal Partner

Marriage is something we all look at in the near future when we think we have found the right partner! But, what makes him or her ideal to be a great partner for you? There are certain things to look into before you tie the knot. Marriage may seem like a walk through a park, but honestly, it is way more than that!

Today, a lot of Indians who go in for arranged marriages, ‘investigate' their partner to see if they are the one for them. Parents to these Indian spinsters or bachelors look for things in the long run - like the groom/bride should be educated, independent and matured. These are some of the things which make a partner seem ideal. These characteristics are looked into at the time of marriage.

IS YOUR PARTNER SERIOUS ABOUT YOU?

If you are hoping to find that Mr or Miss Perfect, it is time for you to do a little bit of investigation too. If you are dating someone, see if you can spot some of these ideal characteristics in your partner. It is important to see if the person you are going to marry will be able to look after and support you lifelong.

Here are some of the characteristics of an ideal good partner:

Maturity

Since marriage is not simple. You need to see if your partner takes life seriously. His maturity level, will tell you if he is ready for marriage or is the ideal partner for you, to spend the rest of your life with.

Independent

When you are in a relationship, you tend to depend on the significant other from time to time. Although, this seems fine, depending on the other for everything is not suitable. Your ideal partner should be able to be independent.

A Compromiser

Marriage is all about compromising. Your ideal partner should be willing to compromise at some point. If he/she isn't that type of a person, having a future with them will be tough for you.

Values Time

The main characteristic of an idea partner should be him/her valuing precious time. If there is no value for time or even money, he/she will have no value for you as well.

The Imperfectionist

You should have a partner who is ready to accept you for who you are. He/she should love you and not make you change against your will according to their fancies.

Empathy

To empatise with you and to genuinely understand your feelings is something to look for in an ideal partner. Empathy is one characteristic, a partner should have.

Humorous

To tickle your funny bone and cheer you up when you are low is something an ideal partner should do. If he/she doesn't have this ability, getting past the ups and downs in life will be tough to handle single handedly.

Ambitious

The other characteristic an ideal partner should have is to be ambitious. Thinking of achieving great heights and reaching for the stars is something your partner should dream of.

Honesty

Being honest in a relationship is important. In fact, it is one of the foundations of a relationship. Before you commit to your partner, make sure that he/she is honest with you in every little way.

Realistic Partner

There are many couples who live an unrealistic life. In these couples, we generally do not see a future. But, if you are looking for a future with the man/woman you are dating, make sure that he/she has this characteristic.

Not Egoistic

Men are born with a lot of ego and they fail to agree on it. If your man is egoistic, try to bring it down to a lower level. If you fail to cope with it, there is no point staying committed to a man with a huge ego problem.

Respectful

One of the main characteristics of an ideal partner is for them to be respectful. Respecting women is important and if your man respects you and all the women (mother, sister etc) in his life, you are one lucky woman.

Upfront

By being upfront and direct is the best thing for a relationship to last. This is also another way to gel with the man/woman you are dating. Being upfront also gives way to showing your partner your likes and dislikes.

Patience

The main characteristic of an ideal partner is patience. If he/she has the patience to listen to you and to take time to spend with you, consider yourself lucky.

Romantic

Romance is important to make a relationship last forever. Without that speck of romance, your love life is ruined. So, make sure that the person you are dating has this characteristic!