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Ways To Impress Your Fiance

By Pooja Kaushal

You are officially engaged and committed for a lifelong relationship. Life is going to take a new turn and priorities are going to change. But before your marriage, you have this period of courtship, which is sure to be one of the best times of your life.

The very excitement of being with the person you love can fill your days and nights with pleasure and delight. At the same time, there is a strange feeling in some corner of your heart that keeps asking you – are you really going to make it? What does it take to impress fiancé?

This little hesitation can have serious effects on your relationship. If you live in hesitation, then you will not be able to give your hundred percent to your partner. Maybe you are having conflicting feelings in your heart and your partner is not able to read them. This may prove to be harmful in the long run.

But fret not. Your inhibitions and conflicts are natural. The need is to be calm and patient and listen to your heart. If you listen carefully, your conscience will talk to you and guide you along the way. We have some points listed here that can serve as tips to impress partner and family.

Don’t aim to impress

Don’t aim to impress

First and foremost, do not do anything merely for the purpose of impressing your partner. That will be faking yourself and presenting a person that is not you. Be yourself and speak your thoughts. You cannot fake for long and before you know it, your true self will be revealed. So it is best to be the person you are from the first day itself.

Be confident

Be confident

Everyone likes to have a partner who is confident, self-reliant and supportive. Do not hesitate in minor issues, and be confident at all times. This also means being confident enough to accept your thoughts and present them to your partner. If you are not comfortable in a particular situation, speak it out rather than presenting an unsatisfied or hesitant attitude.

Be considerate

Be considerate

Remember both of you are moving into a relationship for a lifetime. This requires you to know each other very well. Be considerate about your fiancé's likes, dislikes, fears, joys and hobbies.

Understand boundaries

Understand boundaries

Being engaged does bring you close to your partner but at the same time you must understand your boundaries. Every one of us has that little space around us that we want to keep to ourselves. If your partner wishes to have that space, let it be so.

Be a learner

Be a learner

If you want to impress fiancé, you need to be a learner. Try to get an insight into the likes, dislikes, habits, dreams, sports, activities that your partner is interested in. You will be in a better position to relate to your fiancé and have a lot to discuss together.

Share

Share

Just as you make efforts to learn about your partner, similarly try to share things about yourself. Try to find some common ground with your fiancé. This is can be taken as one of the tips to impress your partner.

Be honest

Be honest

Always be honest to yourself and your partner. In matters like presenting opinions and making choices, this is all the more important. If you do not give your honest views in the beginning, you might be presenting a false impression of yourself which might lead to difficult situations in later life.

Smile

Smile

A smile never fails to impress. It could be your fiancé or the fiancé's family, maintain a smiling a face. But do not fake a smile or overdo it. Keep it natural and support it with smiling eyes as well. No one likes a grumpy looking person.


Story first published: Wednesday, October 29, 2014, 18:15 [IST]
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