8 Things To Let Go Of Before Marriage

Before you tie the knot, there are some things you should let go of. Couples, at times, fail to realise this and thus, their relationship ends up in a disaster. When you are at loggerheads with your partner, it becomes a lot more difficult to understand this. Hence, it is important to let go of things that can traumatise relationships.

The things you should let go of to make each other happy are any remembrances about the ex and things or stuffs you did as bachelors.

The other thing that needs to end before marriage is self-importance or self-obsession. After marriage, your partner becomes important and deserves attention too. Hence, the self-obsession needs to stop.

Likewise, there are many other things to let go of before marriage, take a look:

The Art Of Cleaning

Know the art of cleaning together instead of doing it solo. Get your partner involved in cleaning. If he is too lazy to help around, have a chat with him and tell him that he has to be a part of it.

The EX

One of the things to let go of before marriage is any remembrances about the ex. Letting go of the past and keeping space for new memories is important. Never let the stinky ex come into your new life.

The Filter

Filter the social media. When you are dating, it is fun and exciting to let the world know what you are doing. But, post marriage one of the things to let go of is sharing too much info on the public forum.

Let's Ask Mum

The worst thing that can end a marriage is asking 'mama' for everything. Men and women should cut the habit and make their own decision post marriage. Try and trust your gut once in a while instead of running to parents to make every little decision of your life.

Give Up The Home Delivery

One of the main things to let go of before marriage is the habit of ordering home delivery. Yes, it is an easy way out but not a way for a marriage to last. Follow this marriage advice before saying 'I do'.

No More Late Nights

Say no to late nights post marriage. It is nice to stay out and party all night long when you are a spinster or bachelor, but post marriage, it becomes an issue as you have a family to get back to!

The Self-obsession

The main thing to let go of before marriage is the self-obsession or the self-importance. Post marriage, you have to look into the needs of your partner which should be accorded equal importance compared to yours.

Filter Your Talk

Yes, let go of telling those juicy tales to your best friends or colleagues at work. Your private life needs to be kept a hush-hush affair after marriage.