8 Reasons Why Men Pull Away From Relationships

You meet someone special and you both seem to have strong chemistry brewing. You start off with a series of dates and then one day, he is just gone. You try to reach his phone, call at his place but he seems determined to avoid you. This kind of episodes usually hurt women a lot and it is also a common phenomenon for men to go missing from the uncertainty stage of dating. Why do men pull away from a relationship when everything is going great?

TOP 10 REASONS YOU GET DUMPED

There are some very pertinent reasons why men pull away from early stages of a relationship. If you are a smart girl, you will see it coming. Only if you knew what makes men behave the way they do, you can actually prevent such a catastrophe from happening. When you are going through the stages of dating, you have to be very watchful of your man. Only then will you come to know why men pull away.

It is quite obvious that he was attracted to you. He even wanted to spend time with you. But suddenly, he seems to be try and get away. This happens due to a combination of reasons. Here are some of those reasons. If you know these reasons, you could prevent him from pulling away.

You have taken him for granted

If all you do after 1 month of dating is sit and watch television or complain about how much you hate your job, then you have literally pushed him out of the door.

You clung too much

You are clinging a bit too much to him and that scared him away from you. If you do not let men have their space, they will eventually pull away.

The sexual attraction faded

No matter how much of a spiritual connection you boast of, the first attraction between two people is always sexual. So when the first phase of sexual attraction fades away, many men do not have the maturity to put in the effort required by a serious relationship.

He found someone else

Suppose you were dating Julia Roberts and then you met Meg Ryan who was the love of your life. You would obviously have to drop one of the two hot women. Men sometimes cannot find the courage to come outright and say that they have met someone else.

You used the 'M' word too soon

Did you drop the word 'marriage' casually in a conversation? It could be that the 'M' word completely scared him away from the initial stages of your relationship.

You started making future plans

Most men find it difficult to think about what they should wear to work on the next day. So elaborate plans about vacations that will happen 6 months later scare them away.

The relationship was moving too fast

Sometimes, you just seem to hit it off so well with someone that the relationship moves to a very serious mode within weeks. This pace of a relationship can scare men away. Maybe he wants to slow down the relationship and take it one step at a time.

He got a status check at work

No matter how much a guy likes you, he will not like to get fired for you. May be his boss pulled him up for being sloppy at work because his attention was focussed on you. So he decided to concentrate on his work first.