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Here is Why You Should Not Seek Revenge!

The sound of the word 'revenge' is pleasant to the ears. It is only human tendency that we want to make our enemy feel what you feel inside. However, this sweet revenge is not at all worth the time and trouble although you may feel it is the correct step to take.

There are some partners who want to seek revenge in their relationship, and the causes for this step are many. Taking revenge in a relationship will only see the downfall of oneself, no matter how hard you try to hurt the other person. So, it is time to ask yourself this question, "Is seeking revenge an ideal step to take after been hurt in the relationship?"

Here is Why You Should Not Seek Revenge!

Here are some of the reasons why you should not seek for revenge. These relationship tips will make you stronger and mend your broken heart.

  1. Seeking revenge takes energy. The energy to think of your revenge plot and the energy lost to act it out. This form of act will drain you mentally and physically. Therefore, ask yourself if it is worth taking revenge or not.
  2. If you want to take revenge, your hurt will come back. This will only add to seeking more revenge later on to ease your pain.
  3. Revenge is like a disease. Once you get the taste of this sweet revenge you will want to experience more into this act of evil behaviour.
  4. The reason why you should not seek revenge is because it is bad for one's health. The thought of revenge causes stress, and stress is liable to kill you.
  5. Another reason why you should not seek revenge is because it is a bitter act. 'Nothing good can come from bitterness'.
  6. The last and most important reason as to why one should not seek revenge is because it doesn't change anything. You still live with the pain in your heart. Therefore, let time heal your broken heart. Time is the only medicine.

These are some of the reasons as to why one should not seek revenge in a relationship.

Story first published: Wednesday, July 10, 2013, 15:11 [IST]
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