When He Takes You For Granted: Tips To Deal

This is the last thing you expect from the one you love. Nobody wants to feel like being taken for granted. Most of the time, even while knowing that you are being taken for granted by your partner, you tend to ignore the fact. But do not get so blinded by love that you lose the basic respect which is needed in a relationship.

If you are looking out for a happy and fulfilling relationship, then do not compromise on your wants and desires. You are not here to please everyone and be a toy of your partner's whims and fancies. You are an individual and you have all the rights to be respected and cared for. It is not that your partner is doing it intentionally. Men sometimes tend to take everything for granted and mostly because we allow them by keeping quiet.

So, if you think your partner is taking you for granted, then here a few tips for you to make him see reason.

• Turn him down for a date once in a while. We understand that you love him and it is difficult for you to break his heart. But he needs to be taught his lesson and this is the best way to make him feel the way you have felt all this while.
• Take a trip to some nice place with a girlfriend. Tell him a week before you leave and make sure he does not get a chance to come with you on the trip. Make it sound very sweet and innocent so that he does not see through your real intentions.
• Stick to your own world. Don't act as if your whole world revolves around him. Men will always go after women who keep themselves busy. So, keep yourself busy in your way.
• Let him initiate physical contact. Do not run up to him for a kiss as soon as he enters the house. Let him come near you and initiate lovemaking. Do not give him a chance to take you for granted.

These tips may look simple. But they are definitely effective. Since you are the one who encouraged him to take you for granted, be the one to make him realise your importance.