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Ways To Deal With A Bossy Girlfriend

By Sowmiya Prasad

You saw her, fell over heels for your chick and started dating immediately? U wouldn't have been you while you were intoxicated with her and clearly that is the reason why you found her so interesting. Time fast forewords and slowly you begin to realize that the chick who impressed you with her looks, ambition and conversation is no longer is the same.

Does she want the cupboard stacked up in a particular way she likes? Does she filter your friends? Or does she make you drive always? If you are facing any of these in your daily life, then make sure, you are caught up with a bossy girlfriend. Your girlfriend's bossiness may make you go mad, if that is the situation, you need to take caution. Here are a few tips to deal with a bossy girlfriend.

Ways To Deal With A Bossy Girlfriend

Hold the jealousy button
Are you wondering, how this can help you deal with your bossy girlfriend? We assure you, it works. One way you can make your girlfriend jealous is by spending more time with your friends. Once the jealousy button strikes the chord, she will start realising that she was too bossy and she might want you back.

Learn to Ignore
We know it is tough to ignore the person whom you love the most. However, in situations like this, it is a best option. Your bossy girlfriend will soon realise her bad behaviour and become your sweety all again.

Confrontation-the best medicine
When you are unable to handle the situation, the best way to deal with a bossy girlfriend is to confront her directly. Don't spare the rod and spoil the child. Give her the right medicine, so that she realises what she does. Make her understand how important mutual respect in a relationship is. Isn't it the best way to deal a bossy girlfriend?

Diplomacy works
Maintaining a relationship may sometimes demand the diplomacy rod. If it demands, make use of it. If you cannot direct with her, try being sarcastic. If she tries to override you, crack diplomatic and sarcastic jokes. A smart girlfriend may sense what you are trying to say.

Say Yes
As the saying goes, "All is good in love and war", agree with her at times. This is one of the best ways to pick up your battle. Try to make her pick all the good points in any situation, may it be meeting your friends or going for a laundry. Show her the right things and try to be a lesson for her. The following time she may take the lead and do all the good things you like.

Show her the magic of love
Is there a bossy girlfriend who doesn't fall for her man's love? Not really. Make her feel your love. Express your worries through the bow of love. Tell her what she does is making you uncomfortable and may harm your relationship. Make her realize how deeply you love her in spite of her bossy behavior. Make her realize the negative side of her through the words of love and affection.

Story first published: Thursday, October 31, 2013, 19:52 [IST]
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