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Ways To Change Your Girl To Suit You

When you fall in love, you don't see much beyond the next day. But real relationships can span out over years, decades and lifetimes. You can never meet the perfect girl who is just as you had dreamed. But you can meet a real woman whom you can love and respect. There is a misconception that only women try to change their men. Even men need to change their girl if she is the girl they intend to marry.

If you want to change your girl to become a better wife for you, then you need to remember one basic rule. You can change your girl only if she never finds out. If she does, you are doomed. Men need to be more subtle with their girlfriend grooming techniques. Women are often pretty blatant about the changes they want in their men. However, being a man if you want to change your girlfriend you have to be secretive.

If you are grooming your girlfriend to become your wife, then you need to discuss 2 main things with her, family and finances. You need to initiate your girlfriend into your family and teach her to fit in. You also need to take a look at the paths your respective careers will take. Men want women who are independent these days.

Here are some girlfriend grooming tips to change your girl into marriage material.

Her Dressing Sense

Her Dressing Sense

While you love to see your girlfriend in short skirts and bikinis, most men would like their wives to dress a little more conservatively. Take her shopping and buy some fashionable very covered up clothes to give her the hint.

Space Issues

Space Issues

You need much more space from your girlfriend than your wife. When you intend to get married, you need to make it apparent to your girlfriend that you expect her to spend most of her free time with you.

The Bills You Pay

The Bills You Pay

Sharing expenses is the accepted norm between couples these days. If you intend to carry on that way even after you propose, then say that to your girlfriend clearly. If not, teach her to curtail her expenses.

A Well Groomed Girl

A Well Groomed Girl

Now you obviously want your girl to be waxed and have perfectly pedicured nails even after she becomes your wife. If your girlfriend is a little lax about fitting the salon then give her frequent reminders.

Meet The Parents

Meet The Parents

Introducing your girlfriend to your parents is the most difficult part of your job. Tell her certain things about the nature of your parents so that they help her get along with your parents.

What She Reads

What She Reads

Your reading tastes may not match with your girlfriend's. But there is no harm in suggesting a reading list to her. After all, she is going to be your life partner and sharing thoughts will be important later on. You can also buy her books that will help shape your marital life.

Marriage Means..

Marriage Means..

It is very important for you explain to your girl what 'marriage' means to you. If your definition of marriage does not match with hers, you will have tough time adjusting.

Career Moves

Career Moves

You will have to think about career moves jointly from now on. So you have to take more interest in her career and she in yours.

Language Problems

Language Problems

If the two of you come from different lingual communities, you will have trouble communicating with each others families. Try to teach her your mother tongue also learn hers.

Story first published: Thursday, April 25, 2013, 15:36 [IST]
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