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15 Tips To Make A Relationship Last

By Manash Kashyap

You may be the Head of your home but she is the Heart of your paradise. And this is true in every sense of it. Whether she is your girlfriend or your wife, her happiness of paramount importance and her mirth will start glowing on you as well. Yes we know the riddle that the woman in your life can be, it's difficult to gauge her mind, but discovering that golden key to her happiness can make your relationship last forever!

A deep bonding and that connection with her which makes you aware of her each and every pulse will surely make your relationship last. Being with her both at her times of "highs" and "lows" will make her love you more and she in turn will teach you how to "learn" to decode her. Once you are done decrypting her, you can be sure of making your relationship last for ages. Here are a few useful relationship tips to make your relationship last long. Take our word, even 60% of these tips are enough to make your lovely relationship last forever!

The listener

The listener

We know you are programmed to be silent but conversing for a while every day will boost your relations, and your relationship will blossom like a beautiful rose!

Time can buy love too!

Time can buy love too!

To make your relationship last, you need to make her feel you are there for her. An hour or half every day whether at the dinner table or before you go to sleep will do a world of good to your relation.

Praise

Praise

Her dressing sense, culinary skills, her caring attitude towards you and the way she takes care of your kids are worthy of praise and your returns will be handsome!

Well groomed

Well groomed

You need to maintain that look even after you have won her! Shaving regularly, dyeing your hair as well as being well dressed will surely enhance your look and she is sure to love you, and will be all eyes for you.

Team-work

Team-work

Recipes for Tandoori and Afghani chicken may be tough on you, but being around while she is cooking will delight her. Once she starts giving you tips on recipes, you may not need the tips to make your relationship last!

Leave notes

Leave notes

A Thank You note on the kitchen wall, thanking and praising her for the wonderful "paneer pasanda" last night, will surely make the breakfast tastier!

Love nest

Love nest

If she is greeted by some lovely fragrant jasmines by her bed side, it will surely impress her. Helping her in keeping your house clean especially your living room will be impressive. It is one of the small things that you can do to make a relationship last longer.

Talk out your issues

Talk out your issues

Choose a time to open up, speak, articulate and try to solve them, yes listen also to what she has to say. After all you if you want to make your relationship last, you cannot keep on carrying grudges.

Give space

Give space

Keep some time of the week when both of you have your own time (whether with your respective friends or with a novel), and she will start longing missing on you. You are sure to pounce on each other once you return.

Importance of us

Importance of us

Women are traditionally known to compromise but being an equal partner, even you should start taking turns. This is sure to enhance the beauty of your relationship and make it last long.

Surprise her

Surprise her

Women are known to like pleasant surprises. A click of your mouse and she can be surprised with her favourite satin sari she has been longing for. Yes, getting it gift wrapped is sure to spice-it-up.

Attentive

Attentive

If from a slight blip you notice that something is amiss then holding her hands and asking what's worrying her would endear you to her and your relationship will last forever!

Consult and communicate

Consult and communicate

You need to accept her as an equal partner. Whether it will be the finances or choosing a new home or your child's school, she should in everything.

Cuddling

Cuddling

Gently fondle with her arms, rub her shoulders, and express the warmth of your love, tell her how much you love her and who knows you may be in some sweet action in the bed!

Physically intimate!

Physically intimate!

Reignite your passion, excite her with foreplay, go to the gym together, and find innovative ways of making love to her. Your relationship will last another millennium!

Story first published: Wednesday, November 13, 2013, 12:07 [IST]
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