After a breakup, you strongly decide to move on! Finding an alternative, going on blind dates, chatting, texting, hitting on friends are common activities post breakup. However, your mind is still stuck on your ex and you end up messing your new relationship. Breakup is like an injury which is really painful. You think that moving on with someone else will help you overcome the pain of losing your love. However, it is not mandatory to start dating again.
If you want to know whether you are ready to date again on not, check out these signs.
Signs you are not ready to date again:
You are still broke: Even after trying to move on, the breakup still haunts you and engages your mind all the time. You try to sit quietly with a bowl of ice cream but, your ex flame is still fresh on your mind. You are busy recollecting the memories. This is one of the signs to know that you are not yet ready to date again.
Your ex is still there: Keeping any contact with your ex will complicate things. To stop worsening the situation, sever all ties with your ex and start living an individual life; the way you led your life before you met your ex! Maintaining contact with your ex will keep you stuck with your past. Break off the ties and move on!
You talk about your ex: If you are still thinking about your ex all the time and end up talking or recollecting him/her in front of someone, it is a clear sign that you are not ready to date again! Trying to enjoy a blind dinner date with a new guy but, still refreshing how you spoke with your ex? It can be huge turn off in the date!
Still lack trust: If you have been ditched by your ex, you would need time to bring back your lost trust in relationships. Often, people get shattered and do not believe in relationships after getting hurt. So if you are in the same boat, it is a sign that you are not ready to date again. Even if your new partner is good and loyal, you do not trust him/her and want some space. If this is the situation with you, it is a sign that you should not date right now! Take your time to analyse.
No confidence: After a breakup, many people get shattered and lose confidence in themselves. Relying on alcohol, cigarettes, ice creams, chocolates etc, and listening to sad songs becomes a daily routine. If you think you are lack confidence in entering the world of dating again, take your time!
These are few signs to know that you are not yet ready to date all over again! Do you agree?