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Relationship Tips For Dating Nerds

By Anvi Mehta

Sometimes you may find yourself attracted to guy who has unusual tastes. He is not like the guys you have previously dated. He is super smart, intelligent, a little shy and is interested into video games and science fiction. Such category of people are often termed as Nerds.

Nerds, maybe a little different than the usual class of people but they do have a great romantic spirit and are more reliable. Dating Nerds is a little tough as you might need to compromise and adjust a little, but it is worth a challenge and try. Basically nerds are like the characters as in the famous TV series Big Bang Theory.

Relationship Tips For Dating Nerds

If you want to date a nerd, you need to have a different view over your relationship than your previous ones. A few relationship tips when dating nerds are described below:-

Admire them - Every one on this planet, be it a nerd or not, loves being admired and appreciated. When you admire your date for all the work they have done, they get impressed on you. Admiration indicates that you are interested in their lives and their achievements. So next time you on a date with a nerd, a relationship tip for dating nerds is to be sure you admire their intellect and work. They would love it.

Take Interest - You may have not known video games or might have not seen the Star Wars, but all these are supposedly nerd favorites. At this time, try and take interest in all these science and geek stuff. You might develop interest in them too. Do not force yourself but also do not ignore the science your date lives for.

Talk when necessary - Though it is cute to have a chatty girlfriend, but when it comes to nerds, talking meaningless is a total waste of time and energy. A smart relationship tip when dating nerds is to talk only when you know it. It is useless trying to showcase half knowledge in front of nerds.

The Friends - Nerds are obviously going to have nerdy friends as well. It is very difficult to be around so many nerds at the same time. Their physic - math theories and space discussions are alien to normal people and sometimes even boring. So, a relationship tip when dating nerds is to meet your date and his friends only at places whee you have other source of entertainment and you do not look disinterested. This includes places like a house party, a movie theater or a mall. Same applies when you both meet your friends. Try to avoid places that are not of interest to your date and make your date comfortable.

Find Common Grounds - You and your date should be able to find something common between you. This can be a common favorite music band or simply some common favorite snack or restaurant. Even the smallest common ground could be of very use to maintain a common space in between you to. This will improve the comfort level and will not make any one of you feel awkward.

These are just a few dating tips for when your date is some brainy nerd. Nerds are very interesting and loving if you understand them well. They are not just the laboratory geeks as thought by all. They are also a lot of fun.

Story first published: Monday, November 18, 2013, 13:15 [IST]
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