Is It Wrong To Be Confused About Love?

Infact, you could also say that it is natural to be confused about the exact nature of love. Usually people take hasty decisions when they are swept by passion. But true love comes forth from confusion and deliberation. Every human being is different and their commitment problems vary.

Here are some situations in which you can be confused about love.

Is It Forever?
Finding love is great but the problem is with commitment. Why does love have to be forever is a question that many people keep in mind. The deal is that true love lasts even beyond one lifetime. So if you are really in love, you are already committed forever. Saying in words or making a promise will not change anything.

Is He/She The One?
Well 'have you found your soulmate' is question that only you can answer. It depends on what you want from your partner. However, there is no guarantee that your real life partner will be exactly as you imagined. Don't look for perfection in love.

What If I Find Someone Better?
That is a chance you will just have to take. When we are young, we believe that we can meet so many interesting people in our life and connect with them. As we get older, we realise that a spiritual connection of love happens only a few times. If you have found someone who loves you, don't lose him/her for trivial commitment problems.

Is Marriage The Only Option?
Marriage doesn't have to be the only option but what is the harm in saying ‘I do'. If you and your partner do not believe in marriage, then there is no rush. But if your partner wants a marital commitment from you, then you will have to give it a thought.

Is It Really Love?
Some people are confused about love because they do not know what it feels like. You can mistake emotions of friendship, companionship or even lust for love. In the end, what lasts beyond all these emotions is, real love.

If you are confused about love, then do not be too hard on yourself. Just try to ride over the confusion and reach a conclusion.