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How To Say You Are Not Interested

By Anvi Mehta

A boy and a girl are meant to get attracted to each other. This is the universal law of nature. Getting attracted and falling in love is very easy and happens to all. But sometimes this feeling is just one sided - that is - either only the girl likes the guy or vice-versa. Both of them do not share the same luring feelings for each other. One if the two might nit be interested in any affairs.

When it is a girl who does not have any interest in the guy, it becomes a little tough for her to tell it to the guy. The relationship between a girl and a guy may get into the unnamed phase. Sometimes due to her behavior or nature the boy might misunderstand the girl and think that she is falling for him as well. So it is very necessary for a girl to be very clear with the guy with her intentions and feeling

Not Interested

There should be a proper way if you have to tell a guy that you are not interested in him. For a little guidance we will give a few tips to tell a guy that you are not interested. A few of them are illustrated below:-

1. Be Direct - If you feel like a guy is crossing his limits with you or is getting interested in you, than be direct with him. Say it to him that you are not interested. This will help you to avoid any awkward situations in the future. Being straight forward and blunt may be hurting but it avoids any future problems.

2. Be Polite - Guys can have a very big ego to them. A rude confession of you not being interested in them might hurt this ego and they may take you and your behavior negatively. So it is always good to be polite when saying a guy that you are not interested in him. Polite and clear conversation can avoid misunderstandings.

3. Maintain distance - If you know a guy is liking you and is interested in you, but you are not into him, than the best way to tell him this is by your body language and behavior. If you behave extra friendly than it is obvious the guy would think that you are very much interested into him. This will lead to something confusing and chaos between the both of you. If you are not interested make it a point to keep your side clear.

4. Avoid Chaos - Every guy have got a few expectations when a girl starts coming closer. There is a mis-communication and confusion developed due to which the guy is stuck with the girl. The state of confusion and chaos is tough to handle and should be avoided as much as possible.

5. Let him move On - One should always help his cousins and friends from making everyone feel I am feeling like a dengue/malaria suffering.Do not get more importance from people than it is necessary. Be clear and cautious with your reactions for a guy.

Story first published: Saturday, November 16, 2013, 13:24 [IST]
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