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Are You Too Busy For A Relationship?

By Sheetal Tewari

You go to an office party or friends get-together and see many couples giggling, holding hands and in love with each other. You wonder, why you are always alone among all of them! You are already 35 years old and never went for a date because you were too busy with your work. Are you among these people who wonder how other's find partners for them? There are many of us who doesn't have time for a relationship and at the end of the day they have no one to share their happiness or pain.

Do you feel that you are the unfortunate one who is not able to find a girlfriend, boyfriend or partner for you? Ever wondered what can be the reason? If you are not able to identify the reason yourself, just have a look on following things. Think what kind of lifestyle you are leading, how often do you meet your old friends and go to pubs, parties and networking events? How often do you call your friends, how many friends are there for you when you are in need! Just think about all these things and you will get your answer.

Are You Too Busy For A Relationship?

If you are too busy for all above mentioned things, then you should reconsider your way of living. Let's have a look on the facts that tell you if you are really very busy for a relationship;

Busy or dull weekends
Your weekends are like any other week day. You bring office work home during weekends. There are no special plans with friends or colleagues. If so, you really have such a busy life to have any relationship. Any single guy or girl would rather have fun with their girlfriends or boyfriends.

Never enjoy evenings
You come back from office at night and hardly think of spending a wonderful evening somewhere out. There is a set routine you follow which shows there is no curiosity, fun and joy in your life. Young people or single guys or girls of your age might be enjoying a sunset somewhere.

Spend lots of time travelling
Your work demands lots of travelling and you don't have time to enjoy with your near and dear ones. You promise your friends for a get-together and don't turn up, so you are too busy for a relationship as it demands lots of time for each other.

Hardly meet new people
There are many notifications on your facebook page inviting you for social events but you always miss them. So you hardly get a chance to meet other singles who might be ready to gel well with a well settled guy like you.

Don't get calls from friends
You had many friends till you graduation or studies but you never even get a call from any of them. You have colleagues in your office where your over ambitious nature stops you to be friendly with them.
It shows that there are very few chances for you to find a partner unless you change your lifestyle.

If you have noticed these above mentioned signs in your life then it is high time you get ready for a relationship. Being in love is the most wonderful feeling and there is no reason why you should be away from it.

Story first published: Saturday, September 21, 2013, 19:27 [IST]
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