Is It Love Or Obsession?

Toxic people make their obsession look like love. That is how innocent people fall in the trap! Here are some signs it isn't love but obsession.

Thursday, May 11, 2017, 15:12 [IST]

Sometimes, it isn't easy to tell the difference between love an obsession. When toxic people get into relationships, their obsession might look like love. That is when innocent people may first fall in the trap!

When you fall for an abuser, it is tough to endure the emotional torture and it is equally tough to say goodbye and walkout of the relationship. And then, it might take years for the scars to heal.

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So, watch out for some red flags well in advance. Don't hesitate to take a back step if you get signals of obsession.

Sign #1

It all starts with intense love. He or she gives you lots of attention and makes you feel truly loved. You may wonder whether you are living a dream.

Sign #2

When you are about to sit back and relax in the relationship, the torture starts! He or she starts complaining that you are not giving enough attention. All unrealistic demands start!

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Sign #3

He or she may start neglecting other areas of life and tries to spend all the time with you. When you don't do the same, they start complaining that you are not giving enough for the relationship.

Sign #4

If you try to spend time with your friends of family members, he or she may start making it a big issue.

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Sign #5

They secretly follow you, try to watch every action of yours, demand the passwords of your email accounts and Facebook account and try to encroach into your private territories. And if you don't allow such things, they complain that your love isn't true love.