We all do it at least once in life. We fall for someone who never cares for us. Gradually, our cravings increase and sometimes, we may even feel like begging that person to fall for us.
Though that sounds ridiculous, it isn't uncommon. But relationship experts say that such relationships don't work even if they happen.
Unless your partner experiences the same intensity of affection towards you, life cannot be beautiful. So, here are some more points about the same.
You Can't Beg For Love
Love can either happen or might not happen. You can't force anyone into a relationship. You can't use sympathy to make someone fall for you. Even if you beg and get someone into a relationship it might not last long.
He Or She May Do It Again
This is true especially if your partner thinks he or she is indispensable. If you keep begging for love, you are making your partner think that your life isn't complete without him or her. That might boost the ego of your partner and he or she may repeatedly make you bend on your knees for love.
Repeated Attempts May Spoil It
The beauty of the relationship goes away if you are always begging for love. If she doesn't like you, digest the fact and move on. But if you still try to bring that person back into your life, you can't enjoy a beautiful life.
You May Lose Self-Respect
When you feel incomplete without someone, your self respect dips a bit. This is true especially when your partner doesn't feel the same for you. Love should be mutual. Otherwise, you may need to spend your whole life satisfying your partner every moment.
Understand The Trends
Any relationship follows a particular pattern. During the first stage, your feelings tend to be intense. But after a while the excitement comes down a bit. And after a few years, you may become normal. So, your carvings won't be so intense in the future. That day, you might regret begging someone for the sake of love.
Life Would Be Hell
A person who never cares for you may not be a suitable partner for you. Then how can you lead a happy life in the future if you start a relationship with such a person?
You Might Be Ill-Treated
You can be comfortable in a relationship when your partner respects you. But you will be ill-treated if you beg your partner for love.
Inflates Her Ego
When your partner doesn't care, but you behave as if your life depends on the relationship, you are just building up their ego. A partner with a big ego would be a headache for you later on as he or she may dominate you.