When you are in a relationship, you would want to be a priority to your partner. You would want to enjoy all the attention, love and affection.
But what if your partner sees you like an option among many other available options? Well, even that thought would boil anyone's blood.
Of course, your self-esteem takes a blow when you realise that your partner sees you like a plan B if plan A flops. But how to know whether you partner sees you just like an option? Read on to know...
Signs You're An Option
When there is a date, you reach the place well in advance but your partner comes late always. Unless he or she is free, she never even comes for a date. Your partner never takes time out for you.
You seem to make all the sacrifices all the time for the relationship but your partner seldom seems to do anything for you.
You end up waiting for him or her but your partner never waits for you if you are late for a date.
He or she seems to be more comfortable in the company of others but not with you! Your partner opens up well with others but not with you!
Your partner never takes you to any important family event. He or she never reveals anything about his or her family.
If you wish to move on, he or she will again make you stick by acting sweet for a moment. As you are an option, they don't want you to move on and they don't want to do anything for you.
He or she never answers calls, texts or mails till you lose patience. They are busy with their lives and will stay in touch only when they want you.
You feel as if you are being taken advantage of. Your partner never seems to show any interest in you and at the same time, never lets you move on.
Your partner always gives excuses when you try to plan your future with him or her. When there is true love, anyone would find a way to do things instead of giving excuses.
Your partner never tells any secrets to you but seems to share everything with someone else in his or her circle.