Men's dating decisions or patterns tend to change with age. Of course, you tend to mature with age. If your relationship choices aren't changing with age, it just means that you are not learning anything.
The quality of your relationships decides the quality of your life. Hasty relationship decisions can be very dangerous to your physical and financial health after 30.
Therefore, men must carefully tread in the world of relationships after crossing 30. Stop looking for the thrill that you wanted as a teenager. Now that you are a grown up, look for something else in the relationship. What's that something else? Read on...
Learn From Your Past
The fact that you are single explains a lot about your mistakes. Learn from them and don't repeat them.
Stop Obsessing Over Looks
Remember this: looks give you the high only for a short span of time. Once you get bored with looks, only the quality of the bond saves a relationship.
Don't Go Physical
Unless you are sure that she is your future, don't get physical as that would again make it tough for you to move on. You may get addicted to her physical side if you try such things.
Think Beyond The Bed
Bed pleasures are only one small aspect in marriage. So many other things matter. Give them more preference.
Realise That You Can't Change Anybody
If both of you aren't getting along well, it means you are incompatible. But your lust may make you think that you can change her after marriage. Don't fall in that trap.
Find A Wife Not A Girlfriend
As your age increases, you need the companionship of a good woman. Stop searching for a girlfriend and start looking for a wife who can take good care of your tired life.
Stop Searching For Cheap Thrills
Dating is a thrill. But why overdo it when your age is advancing? At some point, you must be satisfied with what you have done. Head for marriage now.