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Secrets That You Should Not Tell Anyone

Best friends forever, the term that has lately taken over the world simply mean sharing every bit of your life with each other. Yes, when you became friends and turned on to be best friends, you pledged to share every single moment, secret and matter of life. But, does this mean you literally share everything?

Well, you are sharing with your best friend, almost like a soul mate. He/she won’t really judge you. Your secrets are safe after all isn’t that what best friends are meant for! But, are your secrets really safe? Would they not come bickering back at you at the moment an argument happens between the two of you? These are some questions that you need to ask yourself before sharing those moments that are truly meant to be private. There are some dark secrets that can create issues between you and your best friend. Some of it can make your friend insecure too which can bridge in some distances. You don’t really want that to happen. Your best bet is to make sure you don’t share secrets that would create such gaps. Here are a few secrets never to tell anyone on this earth, not even your closest friend.

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Desires that are Taboo
You may have some desires that are not truly acceptable by the world. Some taboo desires that are best hidden even from your best friend. These are secrets to never tell anyone. You might get a judgmental friend and you surely don’t want that to happen. You never know how your best friend might use this taboo desire when you decide to get into an argument.

Don’t Share your Income
Economical status can be a major issue and can create gaps even between the best of friends. Haven’t you heard someone say money can change relationships? They should be kept as secrets never to tell anyone. You stay friends that way. In fact, if you fall in the low income bracket, you might get to hear things like you just can’t afford this or you will never match this status. Yes, even best friends can come up with that dialogue.

What Their Parents Said
When you have been best friends for a long time, its possible that their best friends share a certain rapport with you. Sometimes your bffs parents tend to share their problems or their issues with your bff with you considering you might help them. Try not to share such things with your best friend. You might just make them insecure. They are the secrets not to tell anyone.

Crush on their Spouse
The last thing you want is a best friend who is insecure about your relationship with his/her would be. So, don’t utter a word about how your liked your best friend’s would be at some point. It would stop things from getting out of hand. In fact, you will save a lot of your relationship with your best friend.

Some Awkward Incident
Some incident that has embarrassed you should be shut behind closed doors. Like if you have recently slept with a married guy or girl or just better you have a crush on someone who is really older than you. In such cases refrain from getting your best friend involved. Chances are they are going to blast you or probably judge you. So, when you have that awkward incident in mind, keep it as secrets to never tell

Dating a Guy
If you are dating someone but you are not still sure about that person, you can take your time to reveal all about it. It can stay hidden from your best friend too. After all you are not yet sure that is your perfect partner.

Story first published: Friday, April 4, 2014, 17:07 [IST]
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