9 Parenting Tips For Stay-At-Home Moms

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Updated: Friday, June 6, 2014, 19:07 [IST]
 
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Most working moms would say that stay-at-home mothers have it easy. They should actually try being a stay-at-home mom and see how frustrating it is. As a working mother, you do not have time. But as a stay-at-home mother, you have even lesser time for yourself. That is why; parenting tips for stay-at-home moms is very important. Parenting for stay-at-home mom can get a lot easier if they follow certain guidelines.

Being a stay-at-home parent is often hard for you because you lose your sense of self-worth and that starts coming out on your kids. Only if you are a happy individual that you can use the parenting techniques for mothers in a better way. The best parenting tips for stay-at-home moms is to ensure that they treat motherhood the way they treat their job. Being a mother is a job that has to be done well. You still have to work on your targets and rewards while parenting as a stay-at-home mom.

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The parenting techniques that mothers use when they are working need not be very different from the ones stay-at-home moms use. You have to fit into the role of mother no matter what you do. And you must also avoid the parenting mistakes that mothers make when they are making a career sacrifice for their kids.

Here are some of the best parenting tips for stay-at-home moms who are struggling to find their identity.

Say 'Yes' More Times Than 'No'

When you are constantly couped up at home, you tend to get very irritable. You decide that since you are are stay-at-home mother, you have to be a strict disciplinarian. But it is not always true. Try to say 'yes' to your kids more times than you say 'no'. It makes your life much easier.

Be Something Other Than 'Mom'

Never compromise on who you are just because you are 'mom' now. You still have to be the avid reader, amateur photographer and the fashionista that you were. If you let go of your hobbies and alone time, you will have an identity crisis.

Never Tell Your Kids You Are Making A Sacrifice

You must never make it evident to your kids that you are making a career sacrifice by being a stay-at-home mother. Your kids are not supposed to be thankful for having you around. It is your choice and you must stand by it.

Get Some Help

Bringing up kids needs more than the effort of one person. See if you can get your parents or in-laws to help you by watching the kids sometimes. You need to buy the groceries, visit the parlour or just have a quiet evening with your friends in peace. Don't be ashamed to ask for help.

Retain Your Old Friends

After having kids, you suddenly realise that your only friends are your kid's friends' mothers! This can be very frustrating. You must retain your old friends even if they do not have kids. It will good for you and your kids to get some exposure to the adult world.

Have Schedule For Yourself

Just because you are not going out anymore does not mean that you will not shower, comb your hair and brush your teeth to save time. You have to freshen up and put on proper clothes to begin with every day. This will help you to maintain yourself.

Clean Up Once In A Day

It can be extremely frustrating to keep picking up things after your kids all day. It is like trying to tidy up when the storm is on. So clean up once in the day and ignore the mess for the rest of the day.

Have Parenting Targets

Treat parenting as a stay-at-home mom just like your job. At your job, you had targets and you had to achieve them. As a mom too, you need to set targets like 'I have to achieve potty training my kid within the next fortnight'. Give yourself rewards for achieving these targets.

Breathe

Most of the time, stay-at-home mothers are much busier than working moms because they do not have any help. That is why; don't forget to breathe once in a while. It is alright if you forget to load the laundry or order groceries once in a while. So just chill and breathe easy. Your relaxed mood will extend to your kids.

Topics: parenting, kids
Story first published:  Friday, June 6, 2014, 16:18 [IST]
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