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Why women hate each other so much?

By Padmapreetham Mahalingam

Have you ever wondered why most women hate each other so much? There are some wonderful and supportive women that you get to see around, be it at the workplace or in college. But there are some women who can be domineering, catty and also mean by nature.

In reality, this is the kind of women that most women come across in their daily life. And the truth unfortunately is that women are inherently jealous, competitive and insecure. If you want to know why women hate each other, then you just have to ask a few of them and they would easily tell you that they’ve come across at least one mean girl in their life.

Why women hate each other so much ?

Most women would have witnessed vicious female competition themselves in school and college. However, when it comes to the business and workplace setting, things tend to be more indirect and subtle.

It is common knowledge that human nature will always be competitive. Women always face objection in many ways. The most common objection they face in their life is driven by insecurity and disparagement. Women’s misogynist attitude towards each other exposes the deep and dark relationships within them. When it comes to men and women, both are competitive in nature. Yet men easily express their competitive nature, while women manipulate or lash out at others and never try to deal with the situation in a positive manner. The end result is that women become aggressive, gossipy and catty in their behaviour. Here are some reasons why women hate each other.


Beauty
Most of us believe this to be true. Nevertheless, if ever a woman thinks you are prettier than her, then she would feel insecure or threatened. While standing next to you, your presence makes them cringe. Some women may feel threatened when you are still single, since they see you as a competitor. The other reason why women hate each other is that they think you would steal their boyfriend or entice their husbands out of their homes with your charismatic looks.


Fear of not being loved
Women always yearn for acceptance and friendly support. Women always urge for love and there is constant pressure to be loved and admired by their favourite man. They hate the idea of not being accepted by others. Be it at the workplace, college, family or social setting, they only want to be accepted by others and would feel confident when they get positive reinforcement.


Low self-esteem
This is always connected with jealousy. Low self-esteem could stem from childhood days. Some women with low self-esteem act as if they are happy and successful, while others impudently show authority as if rules never apply to them. And due to low self-esteem, women feel jealous, angry, nervous or uncomfortable. Some women feel offended after seeing other woman’s achievements at work overshadowing theirs.


Competition
Women are always seem to be dependent on men for survival. There is always competition between women when it comes to dating and getting into a relationship. Sometimes, competition can be healthy. Yet, there is always a fine line that is being crossed very often by women.


General melancholy
Women who are flustered and worried can be stressed in life and this makes them to be frustrated with others. This leads to them putting someone down, rather than focussing on sorting their own issues. Anger and depression are the common causes of bullying.

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