15 Things Women Say When Angry

Each relationship comes with issues and problems. If the issues are dealt with correctly, the relationship will flourish, otherwise it may implode. The things women do when angry or the things men do in confrontation can make a tremendous difference.

While some of the things women do when angry are quite normal, some things women do can be destructive to the relationship. Women must evaluate their behaviour and understand whether they are repeating the same mistakes and saying the same hurtful things over and over again.

Some angry things women do can be undone, some cannot. Women are quite notorious for finding it difficult to express their feelings directly; many of their statements are veiled and they expect their partners to decode them.

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The things women do when angry can range from making passive-aggressive statements to hitting below the belt. This behaviour can wound and hurt the relationship in the long run. Using angry statements can come in the way of real communication, and if you don’t talk more directly, your partner may struggle and eventually give up on trying to understand you.

Here are some things women do when angry:

I’m not angry

Obviously, this denial is false. She's trying to say that her anger is not irrational but rooted in real cause, and she wants you to listen.

I am fine

One of the things women do when angry is deny it. Women feel their partner should sense they are angry and understand the reasons without being told.

You always…

When it comes to memory, women beat elephants. They remember your transgressions from years ago -- You always say that, you always act like that, you always do that...

You never listen

This statement is a genuine expression of frustration. Men have a tendency to switch off when talking about emotions, and women want their feelings to be heard.

You don’t understand

Often in an argument, men don't respond the way women expect. This is one of the things women do or say when they feel men are brushing aside their feelings.

You don’t care

Similar to the previous two statements, this too is an expression of how a woman wants empathy and understanding, and not just solutions.

Do what you want

This signifies moderate frustration. Don't take the words literally - she's not actually giving you permission to do what you want, but washing her hands off you.

You’re just like your father

This is one of the more hurtful things women do when angry. Most men hate to be compared to their fathers, especially if they have been emotionally distant or violent.

My mother was right

Many mothers think their daughters could've married better, and by making this comment, the woman knows she can really hurt the man.

Even my friends say so

If your woman has a tight set of friends, good for her but tough for you. Her friends' opinions will be used as clinchers in every argument.

My friend’s husband treats her well

This is one of those things women do as a cry for love. She knows her friend's husband is far from perfect, but hopes to push you into giving her attention.

My life sucks because of you

This is another thing women do when angry just to get a reaction out of you. It is unlikely she actually means it.

Why don’t you find someone else then?

This is usually a defensive reaction to any comment or criticism you may make about her. This is your cue to reaffirm your love for her.

Let’s just split up

A variation of the previous comment, this statement also expresses frustration at your inability to work past certain issues together.

I never loved you anyway

This is one of the things women do when angry to get attention. This is usually said in the heat of the moment, and seldom meant.