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How Men Can Stop A Fight

By Madhu Babu

Men are the stronger lot when it comes to genders. They can easily start or stop a fight. Men have fought each other in the name of war. Though it takes very little to start a fight, it takes enormous effort and will to stop a fight. Men can stop a fight if they wish so, it is all about their intent. Some men are good in nature, peace loving kind, who tend to naturally interfere in fights just to stop it.

Not all men have fighting instincts. Many prefer to sought the matter more ambiguous way rather than narrow all matters to a fight. There is the ego factor in men that leads to most of the fights, though real men are the ones who conquer their ego and tame it. Such men can stop a fight with their will at any time. Then there are others who are built to fight with physique that can intimidate any one. Such men can stop a fight by intimidating the fighting lot by their enormous presence.

How Men Can Stop A Fight

To stop a fight it is important to understand why the fight is taking place in the first place. When a man understands the root cause of fight, he can find a solution in a more ambiguous way by providing a solution that is in best interest of all people who are involved in a fight. Powerful men who hold important positions can influence the outcome of a fight.

  • Some fights are petty in nature, which requires just a little physical interference to stop the fight. Fight between teenage kids on the street can be stopped by men with little effort and some talk.
  • When a fight is between adults and it is taking place in a physical manner, one can stop the fight by physically interfering or by taking help to separate the parties involved in the fight. Sometimes such fights can be brutal, requiring extra pair of hands.
  • Certain fights are cold-war nature. It requires strategic interference. Sometimes these fights could be due to financial reasons or otherwise. Such fights can be stopped by offering middle paths that benefits all the people involved in the fight and resolve it.
  • Physical intimidation by some well built men can work in some fights where the fighting parties could be weak and physically small. Just the presence of a man with well built features can dither few from prolonging fights.
  • Men can prefer to bury their egos when the fight is mostly due to clash of egos. It takes a lot of will and mental strength to settle matters and stop a fight in such cases. This is specifically true when there are minor road mishaps where no one involved in it are at fault.
  • Guns are men toys. They can also be used by men to stop a fight. Gun and other such hardcore materials can intimidate anyone and dither unnecessary fights from furthering without much of reason. However men hae to be careful not to play with gun and handle them responsibly.
  • Some men are born with peace. They always prefer to settle matters in a peaceful manner without much unnecessary arguments and physical intimidations. Some men go out of lengths and even compromise heavily just to avoid confrontations and fights.
  • Some smart ways to stop a fight is to mediate between the fighting parties. Many times when the warring parties sit to talk face to face, it might be hard to handle the heat. In such cases, a mediating party can be arranged who has equal repo with both to settle matters ambiguously.

Story first published: Thursday, November 28, 2013, 10:49 [IST]
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